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Old Jan 26th, 2012, 06:58 AM   #1
FirstBubba
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Why is he being so confusing?!!


Ever since we had our lo my OH has been saying how he wants another baby but I kept saying no. Now I feel I would like another baby he's being really... confusing?? I said to him the other day I want to have another baby and he said he did too and that he'd be happy to have one now but whenever I bring up me coming off the pill and us actually start trying he just smiles and changed the subject! I know he does want another baby but dont know how to approach it without him just smiling at me lol... ahhhh!! Men!!


 
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Old Jan 26th, 2012, 10:47 AM   #2
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I would probably come straight out and ask if he wants to TTC now and if he started smiling at me/change the subject I would go right back to the subject and tell him I need to know what he's thinking.


 
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Old Jan 26th, 2012, 11:58 AM   #3
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I guess I will, I hate the 'maybe,maybe not' situation! I'll talk to him tonight :-/ wish me luck!


 
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Old Jan 26th, 2012, 12:49 PM   #4
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I would probably come straight out and ask if he wants to TTC now and if he started smiling at me/change the subject I would go right back to the subject and tell him I need to know what he's thinking.
Yep thats what i would do


 
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Old Jan 26th, 2012, 16:29 PM   #5
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let us know what he says


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Old Jan 26th, 2012, 16:39 PM   #6
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Good luck! I hope you get the answer you want


 
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Old Jan 27th, 2012, 07:14 AM   #7
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I was too much of a chicken I'm worried I wont get the answer I want...


 
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Old Jan 27th, 2012, 07:55 AM   #8
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Wouldn't you rather know then not tho? I think you just need to bite the bullet on this one. Good luck


 
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Old Jan 27th, 2012, 09:27 AM   #9
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thats men for you lol luckily mine is not so confusing Apart from the "moving in to our own place part ! )


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Old Jan 27th, 2012, 10:14 AM   #10
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I do want to know soooo badly but if he says not now i'll be gutted. I'll try again tonight


 
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