2010???

xjade_edenx · Jan 3rd, 2009, 05:11 AM

I already have a gorgeous daughter and come 2010 we will start trying for another baby can't wait . i love being a parent and i would have ten if OH would let me.
I have got a question though, has any of you given up trying and fallen pregnant withen a few months? I am only asking because i want to know whether its worth trying or just not stopping it.

Bonnielass · Jan 4th, 2009, 02:54 AM

Hello! I haven't been in that situation myself, but know several people who have! One of my best friends had been TTCing for over a year when they decided to give it a rest...one month later she got her BFP and now has a gorgeous little boy! I have seen several posts round here saying the same. Good luck!

Mommy2Kian · Jan 4th, 2009, 04:55 AM

When we startd ttc with kian it wasnt happening, everything seemed based around a schedual, if u get what i mean...and because ive had cancer twice and told by doctors id probably be infertile i kinda gave up hope and thought well whats the point in contraception if i cant get prengnant? so the ovulation charting stopped and the baby plans went out of my head..then just before xmas i realised i was late, so brought a test and tested not getting hopes up of course...and i got a

!!! we were so over the moon!!! The more relaxed i was and had sex when we wanted it and not based on the chart... i became pregnant lol...now he's 3 and we want another one which we will be starting after my scan tomorra!!!

MoonMuffin · Jan 10th, 2009, 13:05 PM

Well if your think about it "trying" can be stressful, then you have these expectations only to be disappointed. If your not "trying" then you can be relaxed about it with out all the planning an calculating and "we have to do this on this day." it works for some, but if planning it out doesn't work for you, try just going with the flow and letting it happen.

Drazic<3 · Jan 10th, 2009, 13:53 PM

I think there is alot to be said for NTNP, the stress isnt the same and the pressure isnt so heavy. Thats the route we want to go, and fingers very tightly crossed there wont be a problem.

Jan 3rd, 2009, 05:11 AM	#1
xjade_edenx Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Lowestoft Posts: 99	2010??? I already have a gorgeous daughter and come 2010 we will start trying for another baby can't wait . i love being a parent and i would have ten if OH would let me. I have got a question though, has any of you given up trying and fallen pregnant withen a few months? I am only asking because i want to know whether its worth trying or just not stopping it.

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Jan 4th, 2009, 02:54 AM	#2
Bonnielass Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 38	Hello! I haven't been in that situation myself, but know several people who have! One of my best friends had been TTCing for over a year when they decided to give it a rest...one month later she got her BFP and now has a gorgeous little boy! I have seen several posts round here saying the same. Good luck!

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Jan 4th, 2009, 04:55 AM	#3
Mommy2Kian Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: West Midlands Posts: 3,825	When we startd ttc with kian it wasnt happening, everything seemed based around a schedual, if u get what i mean...and because ive had cancer twice and told by doctors id probably be infertile i kinda gave up hope and thought well whats the point in contraception if i cant get prengnant? so the ovulation charting stopped and the baby plans went out of my head..then just before xmas i realised i was late, so brought a test and tested not getting hopes up of course...and i got a !!! we were so over the moon!!! The more relaxed i was and had sex when we wanted it and not based on the chart... i became pregnant lol...now he's 3 and we want another one which we will be starting after my scan tomorra!!!

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Jan 10th, 2009, 13:05 PM	#4
MoonMuffin Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Norwalk, CT Posts: 3,369	Well if your think about it "trying" can be stressful, then you have these expectations only to be disappointed. If your not "trying" then you can be relaxed about it with out all the planning an calculating and "we have to do this on this day." it works for some, but if planning it out doesn't work for you, try just going with the flow and letting it happen.

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Jan 10th, 2009, 13:53 PM	#5
Drazic<3 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Norfolk, England. Posts: 9,295	I think there is alot to be said for NTNP, the stress isnt the same and the pressure isnt so heavy. Thats the route we want to go, and fingers very tightly crossed there wont be a problem.

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