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Old Sep 9th, 2008, 02:09 AM   #1
Mrs Doddy
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Green eyed monster when friends announce they are pregnant


Does anyone else get jealous ??? My friend is pregnant with no 2 and at first was really exicited now I feel upset and jealous.

I had just come round to accepting that feb is the earliest H will agreed to ttc and that really its not that far away got a hol to Mexico in Nov, a house to finish decorating and lots of money to save for whenever it gets tight/baby stuff

now I just want it to be me

Is this normal or am I being unreasonable ???


 
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Old Sep 9th, 2008, 02:33 AM   #2
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I get jealous too, i think its natural,
sometimes i feel bad but when i mentioned to one of my friends that was pregnant she said she was jealous when i was pregnant.


 
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Old Sep 9th, 2008, 02:45 AM   #3
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thanks

It has taken me so long to accept things the way they are I have taken steps back again to wanting a baby now just because someone else is pregnant - its really stupid


 
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Old Sep 9th, 2008, 03:23 AM   #4
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I think its only natural. I can remember when my sister announced she was pregnant (here baby was born in may) Altho I was really happy for her, I did get a bt jealous even tho I didn't want a baby at the time! lol


 
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Old Sep 9th, 2008, 04:02 AM   #5
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it is natural.....

hopefully your wtt time will go by quickly though....


 
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Old Sep 9th, 2008, 09:29 AM   #6
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Yup - it seems like everyone's breeding except me!
I'm jealous as hell of my friend who is pregnant and wishes it could have waited for another year...


 
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Old Sep 9th, 2008, 09:42 AM   #7
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i think some people really get lucky sometimes...

my friend had a baby yesterday, and although i am happy for her....i was so envious as well.....


 
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Old Sep 9th, 2008, 14:47 PM   #8
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I think it's completely natural to be jealous i know i certainly am! And not just of friends, of complete strangers who happen to be pregnant or have babies. I hate it, it makes me feel so bad


 
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Old Sep 10th, 2008, 04:03 AM   #9
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i think everyone whos wtt feels like that. my next door neighbour is pregnant and due a week after iw as and i envy her so much. infact i hate her jsut because shes got her baby still and i havent.

doesnt help that shes still smoking too really narks me off as she should realise just how precious her baby is and stop. x


 
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Old Sep 10th, 2008, 04:51 AM   #10
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Does anyone else get jealous ??? My friend is pregnant with no 2 and at first was really exicited now I feel upset and jealous.

I had just come round to accepting that feb is the earliest H will agreed to ttc and that really its not that far away got a hol to Mexico in Nov, a house to finish decorating and lots of money to save for whenever it gets tight/baby stuff

now I just want it to be me

Is this normal or am I being unreasonable ???
nooo im just the same. and like Katy says, i'm even envious of people i don't know!
Just on this site, if i see someone who's ticker says their edd date is the same as mine if i hadnt of miscarried, i get a bit sad.
Our time will all come though. I know its hard to wait but you know what they say!! Good things come to those who wait. haha. cheeeesy
xx


 
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