I think if they came on here and saw all these posts they would freak out a little and be thinking, "Oh my God she's obsessed .... What if she rapes me???!" lol
In seriousness, though. I can empathise. I had to ask DHs permission to join you lot in here as he isn't even thinking about that yet

I think we'll need to talk about it at some point, to discuss what we both want and how long we're willing to wait / how soon we're happy to have a baby... Trouble is, MrBum doesn't really want to think about anything that's not going to be happening any time soon, let alone discuss it! I think the idea scares him, as he thinks me wanting to talk about it 'in the future' makes him think I want it NOW
Men don't get this whole WTT business, do they?