It's true - I imagine sex must be more pressured and controlled when actively "trying" - Because you have to think about when you're ovulating and do it at certain times and not just whenever the mood (or OH
) takes you! It can become more about making a baby (which, let's face it, is not the sexiest thought in the world!!) and less about having fun, being passionate and expressing love.
It also makes the 2 weeks after BDing longer than EVER while you wait for the time you can test, and makes the
even more annoying (and also devastating) than it ever was before (and it's annoying enough as it is!).
A watched pot never boils, after all - Sod's law dictates that since you are no longer trying, you will be pregnant before you know it! lol
MrBum said, "When trying to conceive, Bonk for fun, for England
..." but to reinforce what I was saying, that's what we did (and we were definitely not trying!) and I got pregnant, even though I was on the Pill!
I just joined, too 
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