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Jul 29th, 2008, 14:10 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | maybe try a different approach....along the lines of....is there any particular reason why you haven't told him.......are you not comfortable with the subject....or have you had second thoughts....?
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Hey Chris,
Sorry that DH has been less than cooperative. Maybe you should get both men DH and FIL sat down and you start the conversation, in my experience men have to be kicked up the rear end quite a lot before they'll do something on their own.
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Jul 29th, 2008, 14:12 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Lisa......blimey, that sounds difficult.....and i thought pinning down Ov was bad enough......that must be really frustrating for you......wish things could be easier for us all to be honest....  |
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Jul 29th, 2008, 14:16 PM
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Originally Posted by buffycat  maybe try a different approach....along the lines of....is there any particular reason why you haven't told him.......are you not comfortable with the subject....or have you had second thoughts....?
dude = | I know he's comfortable with it b/c he talked about it with his father back in February or March. His Dad said he didn't see any problems with it but just wanted to think about it a little first. DH hasn't brought it up again to him since. Despite me asking like every month, "so you gonna talk to your dad?"
I know he doesn't have second thoughts as he always tells me he really wants children. :shrugh: I dunno.....
FIL is having a procedure done today where he's going to be under anesthesia so I jokingly said to DH today would be the good day to ask. But that leaves today out, and I think I'll be ovulating tomorrow or Thursday. |
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Jul 29th, 2008, 14:17 PM
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Originally Posted by owo Hey Chris,
Sorry that DH has been less than cooperative. Maybe you should get both men DH and FIL sat down and you start the conversation, in my experience men have to be kicked up the rear end quite a lot before they'll do something on their own.
Fingers crossed you are able to catch the fertile window this time. | @ men have to be kicked up the rear end quite a lot |
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Jul 29th, 2008, 14:22 PM
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Originally Posted by owo Hey Chris,
Sorry that DH has been less than cooperative. Maybe you should get both men DH and FIL sat down and you start the conversation, in my experience men have to be kicked up the rear end quite a lot before they'll do something on their own.
Fingers crossed you are able to catch the fertile window this time. | Very good suggestion. IDK maybe DH is waiting for the "right" moment. I'm just like let's just do it - the chances of me getting preggers on the first shot is highly unlikely anyway.
Oh Hell - I hate being in a bad mood! |
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Jul 29th, 2008, 14:36 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | right moment......?!? men are just useless at talking about this sort of stuff..... |
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Jul 29th, 2008, 14:44 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | My DH is such a procrastinator it isn't even funny. I just though MIL and SIL were being really witchy when they said DH was brain damaged. I guess not. |
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oh dear, we shouldn't laugh, but that made me giggle! |
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oh dear, we shouldn't laugh, but that made me giggle! | Giggles are good. Keeps the insanity away. |
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