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Jun 16th, 2008, 16:10 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Oooo good luck hun! Like everyone's said, there's never a right or wrong time, so go forth and make happy babies! And have a fabulous wedding also!!
Take whatever people say you can and can't afford with a pince of salt, we all find ways to get by with lifes little surprises!  |
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Jun 16th, 2008, 16:57 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Congratulations on the decition. I'm sure you will manage just fine no mater what the future brings (Hopefully a baby for you very soon ) | | | | Status: Offline
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Jun 17th, 2008, 19:11 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I don't think I could wait 2 years! My decision would depend on how old I was. If I were in your 20's I'd say wait for the wedding because you have PLENTY of time!! (You still have a lot of time even at 30 but at 30, I'm starting to feel like an old dried up hen!)  But if a baby/family is more important to you than a big fancy wedding, I say go for the baby now!
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Jul 31st, 2008, 14:40 PM
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Hi girls!
Just thought i'd give you an update - i got my  on Monday! I have been doing ept everyday since Mon, i did a Clearblue one last night and still I am not even going to try and get excited as i have some brown spotting  Some of you may know that i had a missed m/c in Nov and a m/c in Jan. I go to Canada in 4 weeks so i'm feeling worried and upset. Also, the wedding is booked! So much going on, i dont feel like i'm coping Sorry for thr rant |
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Jul 31st, 2008, 14:47 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Ugh...really hard decision! I would probably go for it now. Regarding not having enough money for a wedding and a baby - things always work out and I'm sure you have family and friends who would be willing to help out. IF it came down to it, you can always do a more low key wedding that might not cost as much.
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Jul 31st, 2008, 14:49 PM
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Congratulations on your .
I just want to say, and I know it's easier said than done, don't worry about it too much. Worry causes stress that isn't good for your LO.
Wedding planning is stressful, but it's going to be wonderful. Enjoy this time. There are very few moments in your life that are about you, this is one of them. Things have a way of working out as they are meant to.
I wish nothing but the best for you and wish you a happy and healthy 9 months. Good luck with your planning, and I'm sure your day will be wonderful!! |
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Jul 31st, 2008, 14:51 PM
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CONGRATULATIONS on your  That's awesome!
I know things seem pretty overwhelming right now but everything will work itself out. |
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