hey hun you dont have to explain your life decisions to anyone, alot of us have indeed lost babies and had babies and are patiently trying to have babies and I know within a week or 2 of having my baby girl I said that I could indeed do it again and that was BECAUSE I experienced such love.

So hun I wish you well in everything you do and remember your life, your choice we are here only to support and if we cant do that we shouldnt post at all.

2 user accounts have now been disabled unless the contact us button is used and a public apology is made as requested.

Who cares if you TTC for another after 1 month or 1 year ... whatever is right for you and your family hun, im sure Pierre would love a little plamate!!

Hey hun, u do as u feel in right for u. I know how u feel - after having DS I missed being PG and it may sound selfish, but I wanted to feel it again - in fact we tried (unofficially) for about 6 months, but then circumstances changed and we decided to wait a little while.

My SIL has two little girls, both unplanned and there's only 16 months between them, she is only 22 and copes brilliantly with them, they're now 4 and 2 and she wouldn't change them for the world.

Only u know when is right to have another baby and what problems u will have to overcome to get PG, good luck hun

First congrats on your baby, secondly you have to do whatever is right for you! only you know how you feel and what is right for you!

I completely agree with the last few posts - this is your right to ttc whenever u and ur partner think its right. i would like to wish u all the luck in the world Anita. and the same goes to ALL other's waiting or trying to concieve.
I'm just glad this is a place of support and although everyones entitled to there opinions I love this site as these opinions r always respected.

Hey hunnie, I just wanted to say welcome to the site, congrats on the new baby and good luck for the future :0D <3

The main negative posts have now been removed - thought I'd mention it incase some things don't make sense

I would like to make a public apology for my posts (which have now been removed) I should have put my brain into gear before opening my mouth and I am truly sorry for being insensitive, the only reason I have are my own emotions over my m/c but I know that it is no excuse. I really hope that no-one will bear a grudge, this site has been a lifeline for me during my miscarriage and I am very grateful that the moderators have given me a second chance, I have sent an apology to Anita which she has accepted but I just wanted to say how sorry I am to everyone else.

Thanks for reading

Tracy x

I spoke to you through email - Lovely to see you back on BabyandBump. You haven't been given a second chance I just needed you to contact me as explained in email & realise you had not seen my message but originally it was simply a case of disabling account for a short period.

It is hard *hugs* You didn't have to make this public as I said in email but I'm sure Anita will apprieciate your message & any PM you have sent her.

Wobbles

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