I BDed last nite with using protection

I doubt i will be pregnant as its not near my ovulation(by the ticker)

I wonder if that means that me and the oh arnt going to wait

We keep saying we are going to wait eg mone etc but then i wouldnt mind just seeing what happens.

I dont even wana mention it as he scares easy but he know that im not taking bc as i didnt want to as i was only going to wait another few months b4 ttc

It's ok, I break the rules,too.

I knew u would!!!! Hahahaha!!!!

Hiya hun

I know how u feel as I don't wanna wait either... my logical side is telling me to at least wait until I've had 1 AF but DH & I are going on holiday next week & I don't wanna use protection cos that would be "trying not to get pregnant" so it just doesn't make sense to me as i'm DESPERATE for a baby!!

I think its unlikely that I'd get pregnant straight away anyway as it took us 6 months of actively TTC before I lost my baby, but I'm thinking if it did happen then it would be meant to be... sorry for waffling! xx

phew its so good that others are like me

Atho we are not trying do u think it would be ok to bd around my ovulation date without making it known to the oh thats what im at

I would love to start right away.... but DH won't hear of BD without protection.

To be honest it puts me off BD!!

um, do you realise spermies can live up to 5 days in your womb? just in time for ovulation honey lol

Ive heard that it was 7 days but my ovulatuion (the reddest part isnt for longer). Am i right or reading it wrong?

It says 9 days to ovulation (tho i suppose thats only a guess)

wouldntr that be funny ha ha