Knew it was too good to be true

Bmary83 · Mar 18th, 2010, 16:21 PM

Well after arguing wi OH over the whole baby thing, to have him say we can try in Oct, he let slip lst night then confirmed today that he was not ready to TTC in oct and had no intention any time soon.

Am so bummed, I was worried that he was jus saying it to pacify me! Am so bummed right now

nikileigh · Mar 18th, 2010, 16:36 PM

Men can be so inconsiderate sometimes! Has he gave u a reason y??

chin up

Tinkermoo · Mar 18th, 2010, 16:40 PM

Awww bummer

So sorry to hear that. Can you try talking to him? find out why he feels this way? Maybe you could reach a compromise

Amygdala · Mar 18th, 2010, 17:35 PM

Most men seem to go through a phase like that. They keep changing their minds for a while and at some point they just click and are ready. Hope he'll get there soon!

princess_bump · Mar 18th, 2010, 17:41 PM

so sorry to hear this

hope you can both agree a date soon

xx

plutosblue · Mar 18th, 2010, 18:27 PM

Sorry to hear about your OH

But better you know now than the month before, now THAT would have driven me insane. Men are so irritating sometimes..

luckyme225 · Mar 18th, 2010, 22:35 PM

Boys can be really silly sometimes when it comes to setting a date. I hope you guys settle on a date soon.

Smile181c · Mar 19th, 2010, 04:14 AM

Ah that sucks

Men just don't understand how much having a child means to a woman sometimes. Is there no way you two could have a conversation about a compromise? And just try to not let it turn into an argument cause everyone says things they don't mean when they're angry. It really is true that a woman becomes a mother when she first thinks about having a baby and a man only becomes a father when he has the baby in his arms! xx

Damita · Mar 19th, 2010, 06:17 AM

so sorry to hear that hun

LolaAnn · Mar 19th, 2010, 07:11 AM

My hubby did the same thing to me. Even worse I read an email of his recently (accidentally fell pregnant) where he let slip that he had always been misleading me and never actually intended to go thru with being a young dad like he always said he wanted....

Mar 18th, 2010, 16:21 PM	#1
Bmary83 Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Lanarkshire Posts: 122	Knew it was too good to be true Well after arguing wi OH over the whole baby thing, to have him say we can try in Oct, he let slip lst night then confirmed today that he was not ready to TTC in oct and had no intention any time soon. Am so bummed, I was worried that he was jus saying it to pacify me! Am so bummed right now

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Mar 18th, 2010, 16:36 PM	#2
nikileigh Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: south yorkshire Posts: 169	Men can be so inconsiderate sometimes! Has he gave u a reason y?? chin up

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Mar 18th, 2010, 16:40 PM	#3
Tinkermoo Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: West Sussex, UK Posts: 413	Awww bummer So sorry to hear that. Can you try talking to him? find out why he feels this way? Maybe you could reach a compromise

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Mar 18th, 2010, 17:35 PM	#4
Amygdala Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 3,086	Most men seem to go through a phase like that. They keep changing their minds for a while and at some point they just click and are ready. Hope he'll get there soon!

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Mar 18th, 2010, 17:41 PM	#5
princess_bump Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: England Posts: 31,453	so sorry to hear this hope you can both agree a date soon xx

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Mar 18th, 2010, 18:27 PM	#6
plutosblue Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Cambrigeshire. Posts: 5,861	Sorry to hear about your OH But better you know now than the month before, now THAT would have driven me insane. Men are so irritating sometimes..

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Mar 18th, 2010, 22:35 PM	#7
luckyme225 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Washington Posts: 6,111	Boys can be really silly sometimes when it comes to setting a date. I hope you guys settle on a date soon.

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Mar 19th, 2010, 04:14 AM	#8
Smile181c Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Cheltenham, England Posts: 5,962	Ah that sucks Men just don't understand how much having a child means to a woman sometimes. Is there no way you two could have a conversation about a compromise? And just try to not let it turn into an argument cause everyone says things they don't mean when they're angry. It really is true that a woman becomes a mother when she first thinks about having a baby and a man only becomes a father when he has the baby in his arms! xx

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Mar 19th, 2010, 06:17 AM	#9
Damita Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: England, UK Posts: 9,500	so sorry to hear that hun

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Mar 19th, 2010, 07:11 AM	#10
LolaAnn Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Woodford Posts: 868	My hubby did the same thing to me. Even worse I read an email of his recently (accidentally fell pregnant) where he let slip that he had always been misleading me and never actually intended to go thru with being a young dad like he always said he wanted....

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