Second lot of MAP in 6 weeks bit annoying now - Page 2

pumpkim · Mar 13th, 2010, 17:44 PM

Sounds like the pill isn't great for you and if you aren't good at taking it then you'll be back to square one. You and OH need to talk and figure out what's right for both of you because right now it seems like he's calling the shots and messing with your head!!

I really hope you get this worked out

plutosblue · Mar 13th, 2010, 18:03 PM

If I was you hun I tell him to wrap it or sod off!

He's not forgetting your not taking anything, men have BCP radars so he knows full well what you are or are not taking, sounds like a typical man who wants his jollies without the unpleasantness of condoms. You need to be stronger, if the MAP is making you feel so ill then take precautions. It takes two people to have sex so I would tell him exactly what you want and that the MAP makes you feel very ill. If he was any sort of a man he would put his hands up and take responsibility, but if you give him a free ride then he will take it.

Feel better soons x

londonbird · Mar 14th, 2010, 12:41 PM

Thanks guys

Gonna talk to him tonight but ultimately I need to take the pill, just gotta get over all this crying and getting upset.

Phew, migraine finally easing so gonna go run and clear my head

Thanks so much guys x

quaizer · Mar 14th, 2010, 19:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Kess

Sweetie, he's not forgetting you're not taking the pill, he's not wanting to wear a condom for some reason (more sensation, stubborness, whatever) and by you giving in and taking the MAP he's getting what he wants - condom-free sex and no baby.

If he's not ready for a baby, then maybe YOU should put the condom on, or say no condom, no sex. Otherwise, if you're sure you want to, then just refuse to take the MAP. As long as he knows the risks beforehand (i.e. remind him you're not on the pill), then you're not trapping him or anything.

But really, do you want to get pregnant by someone who cares so little for your health and wellbeing that he forces you into something that makes you feel this poorly?

I absolutely agree, Id give im the shock of his life and not take the MAP, he knows what he is doing and its just not good for your health hun xx

Ps. My cousin did the same as you took the MAP twice, she now has 2 little girls of 6 and 4

so it dosent always work.

Good luck and take care xx

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pumpkim Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Yorkshire UK Posts: 601	Sounds like the pill isn't great for you and if you aren't good at taking it then you'll be back to square one. You and OH need to talk and figure out what's right for both of you because right now it seems like he's calling the shots and messing with your head!! I really hope you get this worked out

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Mar 13th, 2010, 18:03 PM	#12
plutosblue Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Cambrigeshire. Posts: 5,862	If I was you hun I tell him to wrap it or sod off! He's not forgetting your not taking anything, men have BCP radars so he knows full well what you are or are not taking, sounds like a typical man who wants his jollies without the unpleasantness of condoms. You need to be stronger, if the MAP is making you feel so ill then take precautions. It takes two people to have sex so I would tell him exactly what you want and that the MAP makes you feel very ill. If he was any sort of a man he would put his hands up and take responsibility, but if you give him a free ride then he will take it. Feel better soons x

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Mar 14th, 2010, 12:41 PM	#13
londonbird Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 286	Thanks guys Gonna talk to him tonight but ultimately I need to take the pill, just gotta get over all this crying and getting upset. Phew, migraine finally easing so gonna go run and clear my head Thanks so much guys x

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