what shall I do

MrsTTC · Mar 9th, 2010, 15:13 PM

I don't know what to do. We are currently TTC and now I've been offered a promotion at my job. Should I take it or say no. I don't know whether I can have children yet and this would be our first and I have to make decision now.

Thanks.

babesx3 · Mar 9th, 2010, 15:25 PM

I guess its...which do you want more... a baby or a promotion? which matters more to u???

rae27 · Mar 9th, 2010, 16:23 PM

Would your hopeful pregnancy completely interfere with your promotion? Is it to do with Mat Pay?

Whoppy-pop · Mar 9th, 2010, 17:42 PM

I would definately take the promotion, after all you have earnt it! If you are lucky enough to fall pg then that was a risk your employers knowingly took by employing a woman of child bearing age. I hope you get the best of both worlds!

MrsTTC · Mar 10th, 2010, 02:27 AM

Thanks for the replies. I just don't know what to do. It would be very difficult if I did take it and then get pg at work and then I'm also not sure if I need the stress while trying. I hate decisions...

Deeper Blue · Mar 10th, 2010, 03:35 AM

If the promotion is something you want then defo go for it. If it turns out to be more stress than you thought then you can cross that bridge when you come to it but I'm not one for turning down opportunities when they come by

x

Mar 9th, 2010, 15:13 PM	#1
MrsTTC Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 37	what shall I do I don't know what to do. We are currently TTC and now I've been offered a promotion at my job. Should I take it or say no. I don't know whether I can have children yet and this would be our first and I have to make decision now. Thanks.

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babesx3 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 9,101	I guess its...which do you want more... a baby or a promotion? which matters more to u???

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Mar 9th, 2010, 16:23 PM	#3
rae27 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Sheffield UK Posts: 432	Would your hopeful pregnancy completely interfere with your promotion? Is it to do with Mat Pay?

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Mar 9th, 2010, 17:42 PM	#4
Whoppy-pop Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Cheshire Posts: 524	I would definately take the promotion, after all you have earnt it! If you are lucky enough to fall pg then that was a risk your employers knowingly took by employing a woman of child bearing age. I hope you get the best of both worlds!

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Mar 10th, 2010, 02:27 AM	#5
MrsTTC Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 37	Thanks for the replies. I just don't know what to do. It would be very difficult if I did take it and then get pg at work and then I'm also not sure if I need the stress while trying. I hate decisions...

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Mar 10th, 2010, 03:35 AM	#6
Deeper Blue Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Near Derby Posts: 754	If the promotion is something you want then defo go for it. If it turns out to be more stress than you thought then you can cross that bridge when you come to it but I'm not one for turning down opportunities when they come by x

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