No date?

lozzy21 · Mar 7th, 2010, 07:28 AM

Is there any one who its WTT for number 1 that dose not have a TTC date?

I had a date untill OH changed his mind and its realy sending me loopy.

How are you coping?

fuffyburra · Mar 7th, 2010, 08:44 AM

I have no date, my OH changed his mind as well. He says 2-6 years

But most likely 2-3-4. Not coping that well to be honest lol. Just trying REALLY hard not to think about being pregnant or how my children are going to be. Sounds cliched and stoopid and whatever but just trying to "do it one day at a time" if that makes sense? Like, just concentrating on my tasks for the day, then before you know it it's the next day lol. Also making exciting plans for holidays, etc. as well xx

Secret · Mar 7th, 2010, 09:42 AM

I don't have a date, we are looking at about 4 years though

broody21 · Mar 7th, 2010, 12:28 PM

Ours is definitely not set in stone. Could easily be postponed

beccad · Mar 7th, 2010, 12:37 PM

Get planning lots of stuff to do - try to distract yourselves girls. A couple of years back I didn't have a date to aim for, but I got busy with a wedding to plan, new job to get, some studying to do, a house move to plan, then totally out of the blue DH announces he thinks we should be getting jiggy straight away

All of a sudden it's ME putting the brakes on and telling him we have to wait a few months (for the enhanced maternity pay in my job, and I dont' want to be pregnant on our trip to Australia in June.)

to you all.

princess_bump · Mar 7th, 2010, 14:06 PM

us really hon. we no we want another, and we no we'd like around a 3 year age gap, so ideally around our wedding date we'd move over to ttc, but, nothing is set in stone, and it could all change depending on when we move etc, so atm, everything is up in the air, we've been waiting on some news, re work, for, well since way before christmas and we still just don't no.
i think it's bugging us both tbh loz, we're both ready for another one, and once we're married (due to the flights) then it's ideal, but we just don't no, and it's driving us both nuts, as we just don't no whats going on, it's all a bit out of our hands. it's made so much easier with maddi, and looking forward to the wedding, but still, grrrr!!

claire-lou · Mar 7th, 2010, 15:56 PM

Ur date keeps changing too Hun, was originally jan 10 then April 10 but now looks like jan 11

lozzy21 · Mar 7th, 2010, 17:55 PM

Iv got nothing to plan

Might get a bit better once i get to uni, but iv got 18 months before i go

tasha41 · Mar 7th, 2010, 22:50 PM

Want #2, no TTC date..
Want to get married.. not engaged.. thus no wedding date..
Want to go to college.. NO CLUE WHEN ..
Want to get a place together.. we have a date.. it's happening soon.. but I wanted it to happen in Dec. 08

I am going nuts

princess_bump · Mar 8th, 2010, 04:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lozzy21

Iv got nothing to plan

Might get a bit better once i get to uni, but iv got 18 months before i go

Quote:

Originally Posted by tasha41

Want #2, no TTC date..
Want to get married.. not engaged.. thus no wedding date..
Want to go to college.. NO CLUE WHEN ..
Want to get a place together.. we have a date.. it's happening soon.. but I wanted it to happen in Dec. 08

I am going nuts

for you both

xxx

Mar 7th, 2010, 07:28 AM	#1
lozzy21 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Teesside, Posts: 19,426	No date? Is there any one who its WTT for number 1 that dose not have a TTC date? I had a date untill OH changed his mind and its realy sending me loopy. How are you coping?

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Mar 7th, 2010, 09:42 AM	#3
Secret Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 130	I don't have a date, we are looking at about 4 years though

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Mar 7th, 2010, 12:28 PM	#4
broody21 Waiting To Try (WTT) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: North Wales Posts: 1,886	Ours is definitely not set in stone. Could easily be postponed

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Mar 7th, 2010, 12:37 PM	#5
beccad Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Surrey, UK Posts: 2,419	Get planning lots of stuff to do - try to distract yourselves girls. A couple of years back I didn't have a date to aim for, but I got busy with a wedding to plan, new job to get, some studying to do, a house move to plan, then totally out of the blue DH announces he thinks we should be getting jiggy straight away All of a sudden it's ME putting the brakes on and telling him we have to wait a few months (for the enhanced maternity pay in my job, and I dont' want to be pregnant on our trip to Australia in June.) to you all.

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Mar 7th, 2010, 14:06 PM	#6
princess_bump Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: England Posts: 31,450	us really hon. we no we want another, and we no we'd like around a 3 year age gap, so ideally around our wedding date we'd move over to ttc, but, nothing is set in stone, and it could all change depending on when we move etc, so atm, everything is up in the air, we've been waiting on some news, re work, for, well since way before christmas and we still just don't no. i think it's bugging us both tbh loz, we're both ready for another one, and once we're married (due to the flights) then it's ideal, but we just don't no, and it's driving us both nuts, as we just don't no whats going on, it's all a bit out of our hands. it's made so much easier with maddi, and looking forward to the wedding, but still, grrrr!!

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Mar 7th, 2010, 08:44 AM	#2
fuffyburra Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: West Sussex, England Posts: 2,138	I have no date, my OH changed his mind as well. He says 2-6 years But most likely 2-3-4. Not coping that well to be honest lol. Just trying REALLY hard not to think about being pregnant or how my children are going to be. Sounds cliched and stoopid and whatever but just trying to "do it one day at a time" if that makes sense? Like, just concentrating on my tasks for the day, then before you know it it's the next day lol. Also making exciting plans for holidays, etc. as well xx

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Mar 7th, 2010, 15:56 PM	#7
claire-lou Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 6,725	Ur date keeps changing too Hun, was originally jan 10 then April 10 but now looks like jan 11

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Mar 7th, 2010, 17:55 PM	#8
lozzy21 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Teesside, Posts: 19,426	Iv got nothing to plan Might get a bit better once i get to uni, but iv got 18 months before i go

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Mar 7th, 2010, 22:50 PM	#9
tasha41 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Hamilton, Canada Posts: 23,921	Want #2, no TTC date.. Want to get married.. not engaged.. thus no wedding date.. Want to go to college.. NO CLUE WHEN .. Want to get a place together.. we have a date.. it's happening soon.. but I wanted it to happen in Dec. 08 I am going nuts

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