Super Jealous - Page 2

curlygirl87 · Feb 28th, 2010, 17:01 PM

hello i can relate to this in a big way i am wwt for my first until i dont even know when due to being in my final year at uni was originally going to try in last semester but now need to go out and earn some money as my b/f has supported me fully for three years. All of my friends who went straight to work after school and college have noe moved on and are getting married and having babies, my sis in lw who is 19 just had a baby too its just not fair but i guess it will be worth the wait but your right it is so annoying watching everyone have what u want hope u feel a bit better about it ll soon it is so hard but im just thinking that i am doing the right thing in the long run its a case of head over heart at the mo for me

DJ987 · Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:39 PM

I can also really relate to this as my best friend is pregnant with #2 and I work in women and childrens services so I see pregnant women all the time! It's really difficult but I just focus on the fact that we are waiting for the right time for us and that everything happens for a reason!

x

Princess_LV · Mar 2nd, 2010, 15:05 PM

There were literally babies everywhere in tesco this evening. And baby booties mixed in with the cheesey buns! I thought I was going completely loopy.

Barbles · Mar 2nd, 2010, 15:38 PM

All I think about is having another baby, then i feel guilty because I already have a little girl.
My best friend is pregnant with her first and my other best friend is TTC her second. I am so happy for them but at the same time I'm soooo jealous. It doesnt help that people keep saying to me 'oh you dont really want another one' or 'you cant have another one yet'!! I know, no need to remind me!! One friend even said to me 'oh the idea of having a baby is a novelty to you' uh i have a 2 year old, believe me I know babies are not a novelty!!
I'm wishing this year away so i can start TTC but I need to focus on enjoying my time with my girl while she's got me all to herself.

ericarae1 · Mar 2nd, 2010, 19:58 PM

I feel like I'm going crazy sometimes! I've been waiting to TTC for over a year now but we are waiting until the fall of this year. Last year some of our friends had a baby and when they told us they were pregnant I was so jealous. Then a couple of months ago they told us they were planning of trying again but didn't really expect to get pregnant for a couple of months... yeah it took a month. Then on top of that, 1 of my cousins just had a baby and another 2 are pregnant. I feel like every time I control this constant desire to want to TTC, someone is pregnant or I hear something about pregnancy. Until I found this forum I thought I was crazy but it’s a little relieving to know that there are others that feel the same.

MinnieMoo.x · Mar 2nd, 2010, 20:21 PM

I know how you feel Hun, my best friend is pregnant with #2 and it kills me going round her house and seeing all babys stuff, hearing all about her birth plan and how she is goiNg to decorate babys room. It's so hard to see someone else living the life you want. But bear in mind, were all waiting for a reason. And in the end all this waiting will be more
than worth it. (doesn't stop the broody fairy whispering thoughts about "oopsy" moments in our ears though!!)
xxx

aidensxmomma · Mar 3rd, 2010, 00:05 AM

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Originally Posted by MinnieMoo.x

(doesn't stop the broody fairy whispering thoughts about "oopsy" moments in our ears though!!)
xxx

ericarae1 · Mar 3rd, 2010, 19:57 PM

That's too funny! Glad I'm not the only one who has those thoughts!

luckyme225 · Mar 3rd, 2010, 20:07 PM

I know it's hard, I just went from TTC to WTT. Just remember your time will come and it will be extra special.

Feb 28th, 2010, 17:01 PM	#11
curlygirl87 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Essex Posts: 128	hello i can relate to this in a big way i am wwt for my first until i dont even know when due to being in my final year at uni was originally going to try in last semester but now need to go out and earn some money as my b/f has supported me fully for three years. All of my friends who went straight to work after school and college have noe moved on and are getting married and having babies, my sis in lw who is 19 just had a baby too its just not fair but i guess it will be worth the wait but your right it is so annoying watching everyone have what u want hope u feel a bit better about it ll soon it is so hard but im just thinking that i am doing the right thing in the long run its a case of head over heart at the mo for me

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 14:39 PM	#12
DJ987 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Derby Posts: 7,798	I can also really relate to this as my best friend is pregnant with #2 and I work in women and childrens services so I see pregnant women all the time! It's really difficult but I just focus on the fact that we are waiting for the right time for us and that everything happens for a reason! x

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 15:05 PM	#13
Princess_LV Waiting To Try (WTT) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Oxfordshire Posts: 1,394	There were literally babies everywhere in tesco this evening. And baby booties mixed in with the cheesey buns! I thought I was going completely loopy.

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 15:38 PM	#14
Barbles Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Cornwall Posts: 2,503	All I think about is having another baby, then i feel guilty because I already have a little girl. My best friend is pregnant with her first and my other best friend is TTC her second. I am so happy for them but at the same time I'm soooo jealous. It doesnt help that people keep saying to me 'oh you dont really want another one' or 'you cant have another one yet'!! I know, no need to remind me!! One friend even said to me 'oh the idea of having a baby is a novelty to you' uh i have a 2 year old, believe me I know babies are not a novelty!! I'm wishing this year away so i can start TTC but I need to focus on enjoying my time with my girl while she's got me all to herself.

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 19:58 PM	#15
ericarae1 Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: US Posts: 31	I feel like I'm going crazy sometimes! I've been waiting to TTC for over a year now but we are waiting until the fall of this year. Last year some of our friends had a baby and when they told us they were pregnant I was so jealous. Then a couple of months ago they told us they were planning of trying again but didn't really expect to get pregnant for a couple of months... yeah it took a month. Then on top of that, 1 of my cousins just had a baby and another 2 are pregnant. I feel like every time I control this constant desire to want to TTC, someone is pregnant or I hear something about pregnancy. Until I found this forum I thought I was crazy but it’s a little relieving to know that there are others that feel the same.

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 20:21 PM	#16
MinnieMoo.x Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: South East England Posts: 36	I know how you feel Hun, my best friend is pregnant with #2 and it kills me going round her house and seeing all babys stuff, hearing all about her birth plan and how she is goiNg to decorate babys room. It's so hard to see someone else living the life you want. But bear in mind, were all waiting for a reason. And in the end all this waiting will be more than worth it. (doesn't stop the broody fairy whispering thoughts about "oopsy" moments in our ears though!!) xxx

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Mar 3rd, 2010, 19:57 PM	#18
ericarae1 Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: US Posts: 31	That's too funny! Glad I'm not the only one who has those thoughts!

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Mar 3rd, 2010, 20:07 PM	#19
luckyme225 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Washington Posts: 6,111	I know it's hard, I just went from TTC to WTT. Just remember your time will come and it will be extra special.

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