hey thanks for replying hope u and your oh get your little family soon good luck x

Hunni i can relate to you so so much.
I was at uni when it hit me really hard how broody i was, specially as i had been with OH a while but i knew i wanted to get my degree and be a teacher first. Then when i started working me and OH decided we wanted to buy a house so when we have children we have a lovely home to bring them up in so this then came first. Last July we moved into our house so kind of guessed TTC was on the cards...then we got engaged in August. Basically i weighed up TTC and getting married and realised that i wanted to be married to my soul mate first. We are getting married Aug 2011 so i guess ihave another year and a half to wait. Looking back now i am glad i have waited, because we have decorated the house and settled in and the fact we are going to have a dream wedding. Teaching offers fantastic maternity pay and that so i worked out that if i wait till then theres a chance i will be able to go back only part time.

I know how hard it is hun, especially when theres so many people around pregnant and having babies. Its not easy at all. When do you think you plann TTC?

xx

In all honesty I wud prob agree with the working for a year r 2 b4, jus so u find ur feet and also the extra money will come in handy.

Hope everything works out 4 u.

x

thanks so much u have really put things into perspective for me and my oh we have been talking and have decided to wait until im qualified and been in the job a few years. We have also decided to do some things together such as holidays, concerts, travelling and being with our friends more as we havent had much of a chance to do these thiongs as we both moved out when we were 18 and i have been in education ever since and he has worked evver since to support me and i also have two jobs to bring a bit of money in. So in reality we need the time to enjoy each others company a bit more and live and do all the things we want to do before we have children. I t would be a shame if all these years of studying went to waste. I'm so pleased that things have worked out for you and your other half and u seem very happy indeed. I also have found alot of like minded people on this site who are training in education and teaching it is truly what has inspired me to to want children watching them take evrything in when they are so young its the best and most challening job i wish u all the best with your career and your future wedding and dreams thanks again