As i said in a previous post i had a miscarrige at the end of march and had to have a d&C.
The midwifes kept saying no reason not to try again etc etc
Its killing me waiting as i see loads of people pregnant
ok ok im actually still bleeding but i know when i stop all i will think about is trying. I really cant as i dont want to mess up uni. The one that i lost was due october so i was planning to take the 11 off as term starts in september. If i was to try again soon i would only have a few months off. Its soooooooo hard. I have exams in 5 weeks so that will take my mind of it for a while then i will try and relax in the summer and spend time with my little boy. The septeber term starts so i can try then/october.
Tbh i am in debt and hopefully over the next year i can pay it all off which will turn out for the best.
Is anyone else so wanting to try but know its for the best not too.
I miscarried over three months ago and every now and again, I get upset thinking about how big I would be now, what the scan pictures would of looked like and how much time I would have before LO was born (I was due on 8 August). I was really upset yesterday when the got me.
But to be honest, this time has been a healing period for me. I dont think I would of been mentally up to being pregnant again so soon.
When you are ready again, your body will tell you.
I miscarried over three months ago and every now and again, I get upset thinking about how big I would be now, what the scan pictures would of looked like and how much time I would have before LO was born (I was due on 8 August). I was really upset yesterday when the got me.
But to be honest, this time has been a healing period for me. I dont think I would of been mentally up to being pregnant again so soon.
When you are ready again, your body will tell you.
Good luck xx
The think is i mite be ready say in 2 months but i cant even start again until 6 months due to uni
welcome. You are in good company. I have been waiting ...and waiitng....and.... well its been a while. But DH has finally agreed to TTC in June so its soon soon soon (though if it were me i would be melting the damn condoms in the microwave already). I am a typical gemini sooooo (evil grin)
Anyways, what you can do is carry on getting healthy (take your vitamins - its never too early to start getting into the habit and the up side its good for you).
I have been busy trying to finish my masters degree (but its draggin so I am not putting off TTCing any more)
welcome. You are in good company. I have been waiting ...and waiitng....and.... well its been a while. But DH has finally agreed to TTC in June so its soon soon soon (though if it were me i would be melting the damn condoms in the microwave already). I am a typical gemini sooooo (evil grin)
Anyways, what you can do is carry on getting healthy (take your vitamins - its never too early to start getting into the habit and the up side its good for you).
I have been busy trying to finish my masters degree (but its draggin so I am not putting off TTCing any more)
Good luck
went to doc today as still bleeding but she did a test and negative so i think that means that theres nothing left inside so thats good. I also got more folic acid and will be taking them for the next 6 months. Hopefully it flies in
got me.
(evil grin)
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