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PnutProtector · Jan 19th, 2010, 15:02 PM

Well, It's official. I am WTT indefinitely now.

My (now ex) fiance left me last Sunday. I'm very glad my oopsie in Dec turned out to be a

now, because I don't know what I would have done. I was really looking forward to starting a family with him, but all those dreams have been shattered. BUT after 9 days of thinking about everything, I realized that I really wasn't as happy as I thought I was in the relationship. I have a wonderful support system and will pull through this mess my life is in right now. Things already seem to be falling back into place and I'm beginning to move forward again.

I just wanted to say that even though TTC is not in the forseeable future at the moment, I didn't want to abandon the relationships I have formed here. I love my girls and will continue supporting their journey.

kittylady · Jan 19th, 2010, 15:10 PM

I'm so sorry

I hope your life is back on track soon

plutosblue · Jan 19th, 2010, 15:29 PM

Aw hun, so sorry to hear whats happened, chin up and stand with pride, for you are woman!

You know we are all here and love your company x

Eightiesbirdx · Jan 19th, 2010, 16:56 PM

Im sorry to hear that pnut

We're all hear for you if you ever need to talk xxx

**booflebump** · Jan 19th, 2010, 17:05 PM

So sorry my lovely xxx

GirlBlue · Jan 19th, 2010, 17:19 PM

So sorry to hear that, but it totally sounds like you have a great perspective on it. It's never good to settle for good enough, happy enough, etc. Time heals all wounds. You'll be fine.

cdejdemommy · Jan 19th, 2010, 17:32 PM

So sorry to hear that but it sounds like you're on the RIGHT track!!

Lou · Jan 19th, 2010, 18:27 PM

Hey Darling,

Im so sorry to hear this. You know that we all love you too and we're always here for you as part of ur extended support network.

big hugs

xxx

PnutProtector · Jan 19th, 2010, 20:27 PM

Thanks so much everyone! I really appreciate all your kind words and support. You girls are definitely part of my amazing support system and I couldn't ask for a better place to come to and talk.

Britonthego · Jan 19th, 2010, 23:54 PM

I'm so sorry Pnut! I'm new here, so haven't really had a chance to get to know you, but I can relate to your situation. I broke up with my fiance of 3 1/2 years almost a year ago today. It was difficult and confusing, but once I really stopped to think about it-- I realized I wasn't very happy at all. The only consulation I have is knowing that I will have a husband who loves me and wants to give me the world some day. :-)

PS. I don't know about you, but we broke off the engagement pretty darn close to our wedding date. A lot of my family and his was pissed and tried to contact me about it. If this is happening to you, hopefully you can block them out! It's hard, but they dont' know what's best for your life!

Jan 19th, 2010, 15:02 PM	#1
PnutProtector Waiting To Try (WTT) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Atlanta, Ga Posts: 1,714	Upgrade to Extended Stay Well, It's official. I am WTT indefinitely now. My (now ex) fiance left me last Sunday. I'm *very* glad my oopsie in Dec turned out to be a now, because I don't know what I would have done. I was really looking forward to starting a family with him, but all those dreams have been shattered. BUT after 9 days of thinking about *everything, I realized that I really wasn't* as happy as I thought I was in the relationship. I have a wonderful support system and will pull through this mess my life is in right now. Things already seem to be falling back into place and I'm beginning to move forward again. I just wanted to say that even though TTC is not in the forseeable future at the moment, I didn't want to abandon the relationships I have formed here. I love my girls and will continue supporting their journey.

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Jan 19th, 2010, 15:10 PM	#2
kittylady Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Birmingham, UK Posts: 1,180	I'm so sorry I hope your life is back on track soon

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Jan 19th, 2010, 15:29 PM	#3
plutosblue Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Cambrigeshire. Posts: 5,861	Aw hun, so sorry to hear whats happened, chin up and stand with pride, for you are woman! You know we are all here and love your company x

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Jan 19th, 2010, 16:56 PM	#4
Eightiesbirdx Waiting To Try (WTT) Inactive Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Mansfield, UK Posts: 573	Im sorry to hear that pnut We're all hear for you if you ever need to talk xxx

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Jan 19th, 2010, 17:05 PM	#5
booflebump Other BabyandBump Team Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 19,615	So sorry my lovely xxx

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Jan 19th, 2010, 17:19 PM	#6
GirlBlue Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 545	So sorry to hear that, but it totally sounds like you have a great perspective on it. It's never good to settle for good enough, happy enough, etc. Time heals all wounds. You'll be fine.

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Jan 19th, 2010, 17:32 PM	#7
cdejdemommy Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Mobile, Alabama Posts: 452	So sorry to hear that but it sounds like you're on the RIGHT track!!

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Jan 19th, 2010, 18:27 PM	#8
Lou Waiting To Try (WTT) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Cheltenham/Liverpool Posts: 1,093	Hey Darling, Im so sorry to hear this. You know that we all love you too and we're always here for you as part of ur extended support network. big hugs xxx

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Jan 19th, 2010, 20:27 PM	#9
PnutProtector Waiting To Try (WTT) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Atlanta, Ga Posts: 1,714	Thanks so much everyone! I really appreciate all your kind words and support. You girls are definitely part of my amazing support system and I couldn't ask for a better place to come to and talk.

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Jan 19th, 2010, 23:54 PM	#10
Britonthego On a break (TTC) New BnB member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 4	I'm so sorry Pnut! I'm new here, so haven't really had a chance to get to know you, but I can relate to your situation. I broke up with my fiance of 3 1/2 years almost a year ago today. It was difficult and confusing, but once I really stopped to think about it-- I realized I wasn't very happy at all. The only consulation I have is knowing that I will have a husband who loves me and wants to give me the world some day. :-) PS. I don't know about you, but we broke off the engagement pretty darn close to our wedding date. A lot of my family and his was pissed and tried to contact me about it. If this is happening to you, hopefully you can block them out! It's hard, but they dont' know what's best for your life!

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