The reason I'm here is because I'm 21, final year Uni student (finish in May) and I've been crazily broody for the last year or so.
I can't have a baby for a few years until me and my bf (been together 3 1/4 years) have moved in together etc. So it'll be atleast 3 years until we're stable money wise.
welcome broody.... its the spot to hang out. Enjoy your time with OH while you are free from the responsibility of kids (at least i tell myself that ha ha).... and this is a great forum to learn from others how to bide the time, to learn about ourselves etc
hehe I know what you mean. I just tell myself enjoy experiencing new things before having a baby. I know that having a baby now isn't what I want *now* but once i'm living with my bf etc then it will be what i'm waiting for hehe.
I agree with what some one said on a different thread, it's like a switch that's on and can't turn it off!
lol, that happened to me and my hubby thought i went insane....
after we got married a month later it i thought....babies (i never had time before that to think about it with all the wedding craziness) and then ..BAM.... on went the switch and off went all logic and patience ha ha
I agree with what some one said on a different thread, it's like a switch that's on and can't turn it off!
Definitely agree with that! I'm 24 soon, and I don't think my husband quite understands how I can go from not wanting kids, to starting to want them a year and a half ago! I don't think men understand our biological urges!
I'm the same, been married 18 months now and desperate to ttc. Seems everyone else is having their second baby now amongst my friends. The time is right for me now, settled at work and at home. plan to ttc in July, so excited
some of my school friends have 3 - 4 kids.....yikes. but i am glad i waited as i feel ready within my career to take time off or rather take it easier - i have my place which i have paid off and receive rental money and that will give me some financial freedom so i wont feel like penny pinching too much and i can spoil my kiddies and myself a bit :-)