I Did It and WTT Is On Hold..

Eightiesbirdx · Dec 29th, 2009, 14:20 PM

So, to the ladies who helped me with my confusion i thank you so very much for the comments and support they did mean a lot and they've gave me the confidence to do what i did today.

Today, i ended it with current OH i can safely say he wasn't best of pleased and what im about to tell you ladies is said in confidence and that i know ill probably get a good support system..

Well, what happened was we had a blazing row and he started to say he'd off himself (kill himself) if he couldn't be with me, and of course he had a bandage around his waist and i asked him about it and apparently he's been glassed and was taking tablets for something or another, and of course he tried to OD in my kitchen so i took them off him, at this point i just wanted him out of my house i was terrified, he wouldn't leave and i had to even threaten to call the police but he didn't seem so bothered..and i tried to walk him to the bus stop and he kept following me home making out he'd left his bus ticket on my windowcill which was a bunch of bullshit.. but im just glad its over.

So at the moment ive reached the conclusion that i want neither guy, im pretty shaken up..And dreading a phone call telling me he's done something stupid..Im not sure i want another boyfriend for a hell of a long time..So with this i will be putting WTT on hold for a while.

Again, i thank the ladies who have helped me with my confusion

mandaa1220 · Dec 29th, 2009, 16:08 PM

I know it's rough now hun, but it will definately be worth it in the long run... I hope you enjoy being single and enjoying yourself for a bit

Daisy Delayne · Dec 29th, 2009, 16:09 PM

Wow. At least his reaction takes away any doubt that you made the right decision!

bambikate · Dec 29th, 2009, 17:11 PM

x x

Eightiesbirdx · Dec 29th, 2009, 17:28 PM

Thanks ladies

xx

goddess25 · Dec 29th, 2009, 19:04 PM

You definitely did the right thing, well done you for getting yourself together and ending the relationship. I hope you sort some more stuff out and you feel better soon.

lozzy21 · Dec 29th, 2009, 19:12 PM

Blokes like that never do anything silly hun, they just say they are going to to guilt you into taking them back. Hope eveything works out

sing<3 · Dec 29th, 2009, 19:14 PM

well done for getting up the courage to do it

I hope everything starts falling into place for you now - a new start blokewise could be a really great thing
xx

Althara · Dec 29th, 2009, 20:08 PM

What an ass

Glad you were strong hunny!

Amygdala · Dec 30th, 2009, 03:51 AM

It really sounds like you did the right thing. Single life is mch more fun than it sounds so enjoy it! The right man will come along when you least expect it, so don't stress about that. Just enjoy yourself for now and find out what you want your life to be!
Good luck!!!

Dec 29th, 2009, 14:20 PM	#1
Eightiesbirdx Waiting To Try (WTT) Inactive Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Mansfield, UK Posts: 573	I Did It and WTT Is On Hold.. So, to the ladies who helped me with my confusion i thank you so very much for the comments and support they did mean a lot and they've gave me the confidence to do what i did today. Today, i ended it with current OH i can safely say he wasn't best of pleased and what im about to tell you ladies is said in confidence and that i know ill probably get a good support system.. Well, what happened was we had a blazing row and he started to say he'd off himself (kill himself) if he couldn't be with me, and of course he had a bandage around his waist and i asked him about it and apparently he's been glassed and was taking tablets for something or another, and of course he tried to OD in my kitchen so i took them off him, at this point i just wanted him out of my house i was terrified, he wouldn't leave and i had to even threaten to call the police but he didn't seem so bothered..and i tried to walk him to the bus stop and he kept following me home making out he'd left his bus ticket on my windowcill which was a bunch of bullshit.. but im just glad its over. So at the moment ive reached the conclusion that i want neither guy, im pretty shaken up..And dreading a phone call telling me he's done something stupid..Im not sure i want another boyfriend for a hell of a long time..So with this i will be putting WTT on hold for a while. Again, i thank the ladies who have helped me with my confusion

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Dec 29th, 2009, 16:08 PM	#2
mandaa1220 Other BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,849	I know it's rough now hun, but it will definately be worth it in the long run... I hope you enjoy being single and enjoying yourself for a bit

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Dec 29th, 2009, 16:09 PM	#3
Daisy Delayne Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Saskatchewan, Canada Posts: 312	Wow. At least his reaction takes away any doubt that you made the right decision!

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Dec 29th, 2009, 17:11 PM	#4
bambikate Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 4,271	x x

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Dec 29th, 2009, 17:28 PM	#5
Eightiesbirdx Waiting To Try (WTT) Inactive Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Mansfield, UK Posts: 573	Thanks ladies xx

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Dec 29th, 2009, 19:04 PM	#6
goddess25 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: vancouver Posts: 5,600	You definitely did the right thing, well done you for getting yourself together and ending the relationship. I hope you sort some more stuff out and you feel better soon.

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Dec 29th, 2009, 19:12 PM	#7
lozzy21 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Teesside, Posts: 19,426	Blokes like that never do anything silly hun, they just say they are going to to guilt you into taking them back. Hope eveything works out

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Dec 29th, 2009, 19:14 PM	#8
sing<3 Waiting To Try (WTT) Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: North-West England Posts: 383	well done for getting up the courage to do it I hope everything starts falling into place for you now - a new start blokewise could be a really great thing xx

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Dec 29th, 2009, 20:08 PM	#9
Althara Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Leicester, England Posts: 159	What an ass Glad you were strong hunny!

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Dec 30th, 2009, 03:51 AM	#10
Amygdala Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 3,085	It really sounds like you did the right thing. Single life is mch more fun than it sounds so enjoy it! The right man will come along when you least expect it, so don't stress about that. Just enjoy yourself for now and find out what you want your life to be! Good luck!!!

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