I don't think anyone is ever financially ready. I think that once you find out, then you will find a way to pay for it. The only time when it'll really cost alot is for school, unless u bottle feed.
I think men worry about it a lot and then in turn we start worrying about it. The reality is you probably wont ever feel you have enough. So my theroy is bugger it and have bubs :-)
Haha Polo Princess..I am the same....newly engaged and would prefer to have babies first then have our wedding. I am just way to impatient to wait any longer.
Its smart to have some kind of savings for car break downs, house repairs, spring clothing sales..( just kidding). I have lived pay check to paycheck in the past, but now seem to have a handle on money.
Maybe keep track of your spending habits and see how you actually spend your money monthy. That way you'll have a better understanding of where your money goes and how to get some extra cash for baby.
I have no clue how much a baby costs.
Maybe some other mothers can help with that?????
anyway just my 2 cents worth..hehehe
In an ideal world having a nest egg would be the preffered option. However, in the real world things dont always work out that way.. Im newly engaged as well and suspect it will be like poloprincess said..whichever comes first, baby or wedding gets the cash!!
Besides, if you wait til things get perfect... when will that be, you know?
We've decided to just got for it and adapt accordingly
It's a good idea to be a little prepared. I prepare by buying baby things, you know just in case. I figured I could go ahead and buy the not-so expensive smaller things so it's not a stressor later. But that's just me.
IA with the others. You may never be completely ready to have a baby.
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