hi there, am new to WTT as me and OH have decided after having a scare that we do want a baby but will wait till i finnish college in June to start TTC in July.
so i was wondering what everyones reasons for waiting are and when they are going to start TTC.
We are waiting to ttc till July also! We already have an almost 1 year old daughter, but we are waiting until life calms down a bit. I am also going to be getting a raise here in a month or two and we went to save some extra before trying. Its really hard to wait though!
I was planning to wait 'til the fall. Why? It would give me plenty of time to get OH on board, I've have a little money saved up, and have time to work on my business stuff (I want to start a business within a 1-1.5 yrs) before baby came, and get some more school out of the way.
I would like to wait till after I start a job and save some money. I just applied at a place so things might be sooner than later. We don't have a date or nothing yet.
hi girls, im new here was diagnosed in january, i thought at last i know what it is then i went through the whole depression thing when i thought omg im not goign to have a baby,
my o/h and i are waiting until next year this year is mad busy and we want to be as relaxed as possible before trying. babydust to all xxxxxx
we were waiting until DP got a permanent job offer (he's temp at the moment) and we could move to a house instead of a flat however he said he just couldn't wait! (I didn't want to wait but was keeping that to myself) and so we've started to try but are not trying in an obsessive way, just not being careful at all. We would like to be married first but if I get pregnant we'll just bring that forwards (from a him being my next of kin and having rights to the baby perspective more than from a tradition perspective) We said if we keep waiting until everything's "just right" we'll be waiting forever and never have children. I am so happy to be trying at last! I am happy though if it takes a few months.
We're basically just waiting until I am completely off my antidepressant (which will be in the next couple months), then when that's out of my system, I will ditch my BCPs. So I'm hoping July or August we can start trying.
We've talked for having a baby at some point for the last few years, and now I've actually gotten the hubby to agree to a time frame!
I'm probably more excited than I should be, but it's SO nice being able to plan stuff! I'm a planner!
Mainly because I am teacher training at the moment. Plus we are extending the house and it is hard enough for two of us to live there, without two of us plus a bump, and we have no idea when it will be finished, so it is just not viable. Then there's the fact I really have to get my body ready. I'd love to jump straight in but I've not been the healthiest in recent years (mental illness, pneumonia), so I want to make sure I am ready for it in every way. My OH is wayyyyyyyyyy too sensible for us to jump straight in anyway. I'm only 24 so I have time yet.
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