Absolutley crushed - Page 2

LittleAurora · Nov 24th, 2009, 06:56 AM

sorry to hear it hon...what do you mean you lied?

Bambi1985 · Nov 24th, 2009, 07:00 AM

I'm so sorry hun

Sooz · Nov 24th, 2009, 07:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LittleAurora

sorry to hear it hon...what do you mean you lied?

Runnergrl started a thread recently asking what the worst physical or mental pain you had ever felt was, I think this is what she is refering to.

angie79 · Nov 24th, 2009, 07:27 AM

so sorry to hear that - it will get better slowly honey - hope your ok xx

Missi · Nov 24th, 2009, 08:22 AM

So sorry to hear this - I hope things work out for you

LadyofRohan · Nov 24th, 2009, 08:32 AM

Aww...I'm so sorry runnergrl. I hope everything works out for you. This seems really sudden!

Lisa2701 · Nov 24th, 2009, 09:16 AM

Oh huni i am so sorry to hear this.

I hope your ok

xx

GirlBlue · Nov 24th, 2009, 10:50 AM

I'm so sorry Runnergirl!! That is awful to hear. But you neer know how things will work out. The first year of marriage is hard and while I don't know your situation, he may need some time to adjust to everything. Either way it goes, while you are thinking about having kids, this is probably as good a time as any to figure out what's really going on, how he's feeling, and what you are dealing with. My dad left my mom when she was 8 mnths pregers. He told her that he didn't want kids (right away), they waited a year, and then when she got pregers he said she was too happy. He felt like she only wanted him to make a baby. So he left. My point is, men have their own reactions to marriage, kids that's based on their own issues. (My dad's dad also left his mom with 2 kids). My point: better now than later. He may be a jerk, but he also may be telling you what's going on with him and what insecurities you need to address (or divorce if that's your preference) before a baby comes. Godspeed with this!

luckyme225 · Nov 24th, 2009, 11:18 AM

Blob · Nov 24th, 2009, 11:35 AM

Awww hun thats awful

I'm so sorry

Nov 24th, 2009, 06:56 AM	#11
LittleAurora Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Northern Ireland Posts: 2,678	sorry to hear it hon...what do you mean you lied?

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Nov 24th, 2009, 07:00 AM	#12
Bambi1985 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Southampton Posts: 676	I'm so sorry hun

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Nov 24th, 2009, 07:27 AM	#14
angie79 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: herts Posts: 6,557	so sorry to hear that - it will get better slowly honey - hope your ok xx

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Nov 24th, 2009, 08:22 AM	#15
Missi Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: North East England Posts: 763	So sorry to hear this - I hope things work out for you

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Nov 24th, 2009, 08:32 AM	#16
LadyofRohan Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: VA Posts: 1,317	Aww...I'm so sorry runnergrl. I hope everything works out for you. This seems really sudden!

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Nov 24th, 2009, 09:16 AM	#17
Lisa2701 Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: scotland Posts: 1,181	Oh huni i am so sorry to hear this. I hope your ok xx

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Nov 24th, 2009, 10:50 AM	#18
GirlBlue Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 545	I'm so sorry Runnergirl!! That is awful to hear. But you neer know how things will work out. The first year of marriage is hard and while I don't know your situation, he may need some time to adjust to everything. Either way it goes, while you are thinking about having kids, this is probably as good a time as any to figure out what's really going on, how he's feeling, and what you are dealing with. My dad left my mom when she was 8 mnths pregers. He told her that he didn't want kids (right away), they waited a year, and then when she got pregers he said she was too happy. He felt like she only wanted him to make a baby. So he left. My point is, men have their own reactions to marriage, kids that's based on their own issues. (My dad's dad also left his mom with 2 kids). My point: better now than later. He may be a jerk, but he also may be telling you what's going on with him and what insecurities you need to address (or divorce if that's your preference) before a baby comes. Godspeed with this!

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Nov 24th, 2009, 11:18 AM	#19
luckyme225 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Washington Posts: 6,111

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Nov 24th, 2009, 11:35 AM	#20
Blob Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Scotland Posts: 12,735	Awww hun thats awful I'm so sorry

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