WTT after a loss support thread

to you all.

Oh and I are breaking up i think...so now i have no baby and no boyfriend...and was only a year ago i had everything...

How are we all doing?
x

Originally Posted by KA92

to you all.

Oh and I are breaking up i think...so now i have no baby and no boyfriend...and was only a year ago i had everything...

How are we all doing?
x

Oh no babe im so sorry x

Im ok just going through last stages of ectopic now HCG levels down at 19 so fingers crossed will be nil by next friday.

I am just really looking 4ward to xmas and new year then my bday in January and the being able to TTC again without all the shite of temping, OPK etc !

thanks hunnie..i had a suspected ectopic my HCG levels are nothing now lol was 3 weeks ago though so guess to be expected

oh no its xmas soon...i was stupid bought OH stuff already!!! Have you done your shopping???

Shopping ! I have bought 3 things (Boots 3 for 2) lol !

We usually do ours early december as the kids are 16 and 8 - Ben usually has two big pressies and Laura writes a list so its easier - straight to Argos lol

Hubby is a bit harder to buy for as he is the biggest kids I have - got two new babies in the family this year so be nice to buy for them

Is there no way you and OH can work things out - is it the stress of TTC and losses ! It has drove me and hubby to some bad times this year too

awww lol yeah my mum is harrassing me for whta i want (a car would be nice im not getting though lol)

I dunno i mean we had problems with his ex then my ex n then losing the baby(turns out he never even wanted it) all i want is for him to be there to hug me to listen but no he doesnt he just goes out n studies ( he has exmas coming up with i understand) but when he does reply to my texts its one words...turns out hes still seeing his ex (not sure as in together or as mates) behind my back. I just dont trust him anymore...dont feel like i can confinde in him n i just feel so alone right now he doesnt even care about the baby he just listens n then goes aww hug babe! Hes putting me down constantly!!! sorry ranted there!

Hi girls, I am glad I stumbled accross this thread. I have been in every section, but not sure where to post. I am waiting to try after losing Harry 2 weeks ago. Still bleeding, so cant do anything at the moment. The waiting is driving me insane. I want to be able to plan another baby to try and take my mind of losing Harry, but everytime I go to the loo, there is more blood. Keep telling myself as soon as the bleeding stops we will try again, but my body doesnt agree with my mind. Maybe the bleeding is my bodys way of making us wait, to recover physically and emotionally. Just want another baby so much, especially for my DH, he cries every night in his sleep, just want to ease his pain, Harry would have been his first child, and a boy which he so wanted. Kids were also so excited to be having a brother. But god had other plans.

Oh girls, my heart goes out to you. We are all so strong, wether we think it or not. We are surviving. Keep your heads high and don't lose the hope. We will all get there in the end

As for me, I am getting by. Waiting to go in for the scan on Wednesday. I am wishing, hoping, and willing everything to be okay. The test I did this morning was much fainter than last week, so that must be a good sign?! I just want this medical side to be over now. I am hoping they say all is well and give us the go ahead. I wanted to wait until Feb, but I think OH wants us to NTNP asap. We will see. Just want to get Wednesday done now.

Love all round. -x-

[QUOTE=mizzk;3633440]Hi ,Thankyou for making this thread Drazic

We got pregnant on 19th August 09, Got my first faint BFP around the 15th Sept 09, we were so overjoyed and i got my "proper" BFP on the 19th. The week after that i started getting crampy, got brown cm and over the next few days it turned into a heavy flow whilst i was at work & that was the end, we were upset & it hits me now and again, i would have been nearly 14 weeks by now. I'ts hard thinking about what could've been. I know i was only 5 weeks when it happened but it would've been our baby.

Anyway my OH booked us a holiday for May next year with his mam & family which i'm not even bothered about going on, i don't want to wait to try but he says it will do me good etc.

I've only started going in first tri again lately and i havnt been in TTC much either, i feel bitter about it all so ive just been trying to enjoy the rest of the forum.

Excuse my complete soppy ramble but i feel good to let it out in somewhere i fit in

Hi there sorry to hear about your sad loss, i know how you feel when i said goodbye to the girls on the 1st trim forum i said i will still look in but cant seem to do it yet, but then its still early days i lost my little bean 2weeks ago today at 6 weeks why do we still count in our heads the number of weeks pregnant we should of been, i know im going to keep doing it right up to 40weeks, what makes it worse my little bean was due on my mums birthday, its torture -x-

...sometimes thats all you need, a good hug

2 more days and counting.... (till specialist lol)

Hubby got swine flu now - dont know WTF can go wrong next !