xsophiexleax

I'm worried about the usual (saggy boobs, bigger/saggy tummy, baby fat) but i'm also worried about prolapse I saw it on Embarrassing bodies on channel 4 and it really made my face scrunch up! Eeeek

plutosblue

I totally forgot about prolapse, and then there was that woman who had a third degree tear that got stitched up too tight so she was in constant pain until it was sorted..



Ok I have to say I am a little put off now.

xsophiexleax

Sorry didn't mean to put you off!

I think that's actually probably my biggest worry.. i want everything still good down there! No insides falling out my foof please

I think it's pretty small odds that it'll happen though!!

Kracker

I have it all I'm afraid. Infact my body looks like a balloon that you find behind a sofa 6 weeks after the party :P I am actually slimmer now then I was before, but it all looks a bit deflated. However, when I look at my beautiful son everything pales in comparison. I was also worried about downstairs and was afraid that my sex life would resemble the outside of a sausage roll. My DH says it doesn't feel any different and this was when my son was 6 weeks old! It is natural and normal to worry but when it comes to it you wont care! I have down days when I look in the mirror and think yuck, but TBH I thought that sometimes before! HTH xx

Blob

I had a 3rd degree tear Wasnt that nice but i had tons of scrapes rather than tears so they cant stitch that But i dont know any difference now...infact down there is the only place i dont feel like i've changed...

Lovemyboy

I didn't breastfeed but my body went back to normaly a short while after birth. I have a great tip tho......use bio oil during pregnancy. Although it is expensive i used it everyday throughout my pregnancy and i don't have any strechmarks.

Don't worry about your boobs, mine looked BETTER after i had my son and still do almost 4 years down the line!

plutosblue

I laughed so hard at this my Tea squirted out my nose...

Ouchie..

xsophiexleax

Sorry!

MrsN

I'm sure your OH will still love you whatever the joys of pregnancy through at you! With my 1st I didnt get a single stretchmark, have any baby weight to lose or any other after effects like that, however with my 2nd, 2 and a half years later, despite using coco butter every day, I did get a few stretchmarks and found it much harder to lose the baby weight, and still have a bit now 3 and a half years later. I dont think anything you do will make a difference tbh, what will be will be. I also breastfed for 6 months and it didnt change by boobies!
Hubby is still as randy as he has always been, so I dont think he minds my body now, lol

Blob

Just wait until you're pregnant and when you laugh/sneeze you pee yourself a bit