I think its safe to say i'm not pregnant, seeing as the incident happened 9 days before i ovulated unless ofcourse the OH has super sperm lol or my ovulation calculation was wrong.
I feel quite down about it, but the OH doesn't seem to be the same. I so wanted to have a baby brother/sister for Lilly and have then be close in age, at least that way the baby stage is over and done with i guess
however i'm thinking that it might be a bad idea to even try in June, my OH seems to be distancing away from me and I don't feel it would be good for us as a family to add a new addition into the mix. We barely have sex at the moment, if we do its when i initiate it and i'm a bit confused as to where we are at the minute.
If any guys could give me advice like if they've ever been like this or felt like this that would be awesome, or if any girls.
Hi hun,
I have read a similar post to yours this morning and I think the only thing you can do is talk to him and see how he is feeling at the moment. Did you both discuss having another baby??? Maybe he feels a little pressured and you know what men are like when they feel that way lol.
Why not try spicing things up a little, get him to come to you rather than the other way around? I know that my hubby just feels like he is here to provide me with his sperm ( tmi I know)at the moment and sometimes thinks that I don't want him for him ( just for what he can give me).
Talk to him sweet, It may be something really small that is bothering him that can be sorted with a simple conversation.
Keep us up dated on your progress and good luck
we discussed trying for a baby in June and we were both really excited about it but recently i have noticed he's not as into me as he was before and i have never seen him like this, i try my best, i work for ann summers so i had the whole ensemble on and he said he had too sore a back!!! I felt so stupid, maybe he just doesn't find me sexy anymore. will more than likely be back on here telling you's all how things are going.
I think you and DH need to sit down and have a nice long talk. He may be feeling overwhelmed by everything, new baby, the possibility of you being pregnant again etc.
I think you and DH need to sit down and have a nice long talk. He may be feeling overwhelmed by everything, new baby, the possibility of you being pregnant again etc.
I have to agree with you Vickie!
In addition, and this may not be true in your case, but men feel a bit left out when a baby comes along. My hubby did and I certainly can understand why as my babies were solely dependent on me the first months due to breastfeeding.
A new baby in the house is a huge adjustment for men.
I too believe you should discuss with him how he is feeling, etc.
Hey guys, me and the OH had a good long talk yesterday and went over the things that were bothering us. We have decided to wait for a while before we try for a baby again.
Thank you all for your kind words and messages you really helped me feel better yesterday.
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