thingschange1

Ok i know everyone will probably say i am stupid because of my age but yes i am 18 and wanting a baby and have done since i was about 13 but obviously i had more serious things to attend to first. First let me tell you my situation, im an 18 year old teaching assistant, who does one evening a week at college to get my degree in order to work to being a teacher, i live with my boyfriend (who is also employed but as a forklift driver ---so we are not just the average bum). we are now concidering having a baby because i found out i have lupus anticoagulant - which decreases your change in givin birth succesfully, because your body attacks the child. So my dilema is do we wait and let our chances in having children decrease each year or do we start trying for children as it could be over 5 attempts/mis carriages before we have our own child due to my medical condition.

thank you

claire xx

Amygdala

Hi Claire

I copied my answer into your other thread, so we don't have the same thing twice...