I'm in the WTT I guess but still so back & forth on to when that 'try' will happen.

Scared to leave it too long incase we have problems again although I am refusing to test etc this time I'm wondering if we will take a while to conceive again or if at all! I want to give it the max of trying but another part of me although it would be nice feels its a bit scarey & undecided if I'd want to have #2 quite yet if I should catch quickly! I don't want to regret not trying from the start & of course I know my fertility is boosted now after child birth so fingers crossed for whenever lol

I know having 2 will be trying & when a little older should we have 2 close it would be great for them & I am only having 2 so maybe the trying times until both in a nights sleep would be worth it - just can't decide!

*Rambling I know*

good luck whatever you decide hun xxx

i think u shud go for it

go for it now,as such a shock with a gap,you get too used to your time being freed up,then Bam! it is taken away again. Wish I could have had mine closer but then wasnt in my hands

Good luck

Don't lol >>>>

Unless your offering to move closer & baby sit!

Hey Wobbles just go for it you have got 1 now & as you well know your life will never be the same again...the more the merrier xx

I'd go for it....its what I did after Ky.......However you are like a thousand times more fertile!
For me, I felt the same as you do now, after I had Ky. - I was Incredibly broody from the moment he was born- (I think the hormones have a lot to answer for!) I knew I wanted more than one child, but with my history knew I didn't want to leave it too long....But at the same time, I'd waited so long for Ky I wanted to enjoy him....In the end, we never actually agreed to try (because of the whole pressure of TTC again) but we didn't start using any form of contraception either.
-As I was breastfeeding my periods didn't start again until Ky was 10 months old, but I was pregnant again within 5 months of them returning, so there is a 2 year age gap, which is quite nice.

with whatever you decide!

Welcome to the side of the TTC, I know you still waiting for the right time to star, but welcome.
Good luck when you start and I hope you get a really soon

I say go for it! it you know you only want 2 then you might aswell have them close together so they can grow up with each other, plus you get it all out of the way before it gets to the stage where you think " oh no i have to go through it all again...sleepless nights etc" (which is what im currently thinking myself !!! lol)
Must be hard to know what to do! Good luck with deciding ! x

Personally, I love the age gap between Jade & Alfie, I have not found it restricting at all, I am loving being that much older and more appreciate of the little things. Although I would have liked to have had another close to Jade, just so she had someone to play anf grow up with. But I also like the idea of 2 close together, I will not leave it so long with TTC another.

You are plenty young enough to leave it a while but I understand the whole TTC worry, and I am sure you have the energy for 2 little 'uns!

I say, just follow your heart! x