NeyNey

Wobbles

Thanks girls

& thanks Rachie I knew you'd get what I mean exactly
I'm actually really off the idea

Part of me wants #2 but another part of me knows what Im in for (lol) and doesn't but won't leave her an only child if I can help it. Theres also a selfish I want some 'me' time too.

hypnorm

Good luck! ( theres nothing wrong with only childs remember) it would be a great age gap! but two potentially under 1 yr old! Scarey!!

Wobbles

No I don't think thers anything wrong with a single child I mean end of day it can happen like that and be taken from my hands but I'd like her to have a bro or sis if I can ... I think thats because I experienced two sides ... a big bro & sis (fostered long term) then blinked and I was an only child (back to my Mum for short period) so I'd like that for her & I think we'd both like 2 (well he said fullstop at 2 & I agree) Your right scarey though if Miss C was in a routine by then it would be ok to go between both and jump back to the 3 hr feeds but noone can see the future & she prob won't sleep through until shes 18 knowing my luck

poppy

Good luck Wobbles whatever you choose to do. Having two together would mean that they would be close growing up and that it would be easier to organise activities that they both enjoyed doing - I remember having to listen to the 'Singing Kettle' when about 12 all the way down to Devon because my little four year old sister loved them!!