Who's Choice?

Beltane · Aug 16th, 2009, 02:33 AM

Just wondering for all you WTT ladies. Are you or have you and your OH both going to choose when you want to TTC? Are you waiting for the green light from him? Or is it completely your choice when you want to TTC?

**booflebump** · Aug 16th, 2009, 02:57 AM

Its a joint decision for us xxx

Beltane · Aug 16th, 2009, 02:59 AM

It's my call completely which is really dangerous when I'm feeling broody!

Pinkgirl · Aug 16th, 2009, 03:49 AM

Me and OH!
Dont want to TTC if he wasnt ready x

Peach · Aug 16th, 2009, 05:06 AM

Both - We both have things we want to do before we start TTC

nightkd · Aug 16th, 2009, 05:17 AM

BOTH of us! ^_^ We both wanna do it end of this year, but have things we have to wait on.

Pops · Aug 16th, 2009, 05:38 AM

It is such a massive, life changing decision that for me to be told "its up to you" just wouldn't have sat right. And likewise, for me to have said that to OH would have been unfair.

We are lucky in that we are always on the same page and so knew when it was right for us and it was a decision that we made together having worked through the ins and outs of it all.

That is how we tackle everything though xxx

Amygdala · Aug 16th, 2009, 05:38 AM

At the moment I'm broodier than my OH. At the same time we're waiting mainly for things I want to do more than we're waiting for things he wants to do. In the end the time has to be right for both of us.

katstar · Aug 16th, 2009, 06:25 AM

We both decided together that we wanted to try. Well he always knew i wanted to and then i was waiting for him. The decider was when we were getting down to it and he did not get a condom. I said are you sure and he said yes.

We are now waiting as i am currently going through methorexate treatment for a failing pregnancy in a unknown location. (Previous ectopic april 2009). We have to wait 3 months for the toxins to leave my body.

xxx

sleepinbeauty · Aug 16th, 2009, 10:06 AM

I'm waiting for him to be ready. It's driving me insane!

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Aug 16th, 2009, 02:33 AM	#1
Beltane Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: Philadelphia, PA Posts: 4,384	Who's Choice? Just wondering for all you WTT ladies. Are you or have you and your OH both going to choose when you want to TTC? Are you waiting for the green light from him? Or is it completely your choice when you want to TTC?

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Aug 16th, 2009, 02:57 AM	#2
booflebump Other BabyandBump Team Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 19,615	Its a joint decision for us xxx

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Aug 16th, 2009, 02:59 AM	#3
Beltane Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: Philadelphia, PA Posts: 4,384	It's my call completely which is really dangerous when I'm feeling broody!

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Aug 16th, 2009, 03:49 AM	#4
Pinkgirl Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 6,177	Me and OH! Dont want to TTC if he wasnt ready x

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Peach Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Louth, Lincolnshire Posts: 695	Both - We both have things we want to do before we start TTC

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nightkd Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: British Expat in USA Posts: 8,375	BOTH of us! ^_^ We both wanna do it end of this year, but have things we have to wait on.

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Pops Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Surrey Posts: 9,350	It is such a massive, life changing decision that for me to be told "its up to you" just wouldn't have sat right. And likewise, for me to have said that to OH would have been unfair. We are lucky in that we are always on the same page and so knew when it was right for us and it was a decision that we made together having worked through the ins and outs of it all. That is how we tackle everything though xxx
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Amygdala Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 3,085	At the moment I'm broodier than my OH. At the same time we're waiting mainly for things I want to do more than we're waiting for things he wants to do. In the end the time has to be right for both of us.

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Aug 16th, 2009, 06:25 AM	#9
katstar Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: South Yorkshire, England Posts: 1,887	We both decided together that we wanted to try. Well he always knew i wanted to and then i was waiting for him. The decider was when we were getting down to it and he did not get a condom. I said are you sure and he said yes. We are now waiting as i am currently going through methorexate treatment for a failing pregnancy in a unknown location. (Previous ectopic april 2009). We have to wait 3 months for the toxins to leave my body. xxx

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Aug 16th, 2009, 10:06 AM	#10
sleepinbeauty Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: NY, USA Posts: 3,298	I'm waiting for him to be ready. It's driving me insane!

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