.....feeling lost

T'elle · Jul 21st, 2009, 20:14 PM

I dont know why im posting this, well i do because im feeling lost, but anyone else that is WTT/NTNP feel like they dont belong anywhere? atm im feeling so lonely, i dont have contact with any of my friends as to be honest there not really friends, im kind of feeling like i have no one

sounds silly, but i really dont have anyone to text or message saying im feeling really lonely can we chat? most of my friends know we are having fertility problems, and not one of them messages me asking how i am, or how is it going?
i just kind of feel so lost right now and have no where to turn to i just want to cry

for those of you who dont know we have unexplained infertility and have to wait 2 years to qualify for treatment at IVF wales, so we are stuck at the moment just waiting around, we have had 4 m/cs and i just dont know what to do or where i belong or what im doing.

sorry for bothering you all just needed to get it off my chest.......x

K1nS · Jul 21st, 2009, 20:17 PM

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Originally Posted by T'elle

I dont know why im posting this, well i do because im feeling lost, but anyone else that is WTT/NTNP feel like they dont belong anywhere? atm im feeling so lonely, i dont have contact with any of my friends as to be honest there not really friends, im kind of feeling like i have no one

sounds silly, but i really dont have anyone to text or message saying im feeling really lonely can we chat? most of my friends know we are having fertility problems, and not one of them messages me asking how i am, or how is it going?
i just kind of feel so lost right now and have no where to turn to i just want to cry

for those of you who dont know we have unexplained infertility and have to wait 2 years to qualify for treatment at IVF wales, so we are stuck at the moment just waiting around, we have had 4 m/cs and i just dont know what to do or where i belong or what im doing.

sorry for bothering you all just needed to get it off my chest.......x

I can't say that I know what you are going through hun but I really feel for you. I know its hard when you feel so alone and feel like your bothering others when you need to chat, but maybe its best to talk to someone your close to, get it all off your chest

Then again, if you need someone to chat to you, who you don't know then you can always PM me

angsaysrawr · Jul 21st, 2009, 20:46 PM

I'm sorry to hear about what you are going through, but if you need to talk feel free to contact me. Right now I do not know if I will even have fertility problems because we aren't going to start trying until next summer but I do understand your pain. A good friend of mine has to get treatments to get pregnant because her husband had testicular cancer so all his sperm is frozen. I have been there supporting her for awhile. If you need to talk like I said feel free to contact me. *hugs*

Alexas Mommy · Jul 21st, 2009, 20:49 PM

AnnaBanana9 · Jul 21st, 2009, 21:03 PM

I am always around if you need someone to talk to - always ready to listen.

T'elle · Jul 21st, 2009, 21:06 PM

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Originally Posted by angsaysrawr

I'm sorry to hear about what you are going through, but if you need to talk feel free to contact me. Right now I do not know if I will even have fertility problems because we aren't going to start trying until next summer but I do understand your pain. A good friend of mine has to get treatments to get pregnant because her husband had testicular cancer so all his sperm is frozen. I have been there supporting her for awhile. If you need to talk like I said feel free to contact me. *hugs*

wow such a lovely friend u r !

thanks for the reply hun xxxx

**booflebump** · Jul 22nd, 2009, 03:26 AM

Oh petal

Sorry you are feeling so blue. I am always on here if you need a rant! xxx

princess_bump · Jul 22nd, 2009, 03:33 AM

sweetie, i can't begin to imagine the pain you are going through

i am so so sorry you have such pants friends

but can i say i too am always round for a chat if you need a good listening ear

and please feel welcome and supported here in wtt

i wish i could take all your hurt away, i really do, your post made me

i am so so deeply sorry for your losses.

big hugs carly xxxx

Pops · Jul 22nd, 2009, 03:55 AM

Oh my lovely, I am so sorry and will echo what has already been said, I am here whenever you want to talk

I can not imagine what you are going through but I am very close to someone who is going through similar so know how painful it is and how it can consume you.

xxx

Mrs Poppy · Jul 22nd, 2009, 07:18 AM

Sorry for what you are feeling right now hun x

Jul 21st, 2009, 20:14 PM	#1
T'elle Other BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: South Wales Posts: 2,962	.....feeling lost I dont know why im posting this, well i do because im feeling lost, but anyone else that is WTT/NTNP feel like they dont belong anywhere? atm im feeling so lonely, i dont have contact with any of my friends as to be honest there not really friends, im kind of feeling like i have no one sounds silly, but i really dont have anyone to text or message saying im feeling really lonely can we chat? most of my friends know we are having fertility problems, and not one of them messages me asking how i am, or how is it going? i just kind of feel so lost right now and have no where to turn to i just want to cry for those of you who dont know we have unexplained infertility and have to wait 2 years to qualify for treatment at IVF wales, so we are stuck at the moment just waiting around, we have had 4 m/cs and i just dont know what to do or where i belong or what im doing. sorry for bothering you all just needed to get it off my chest.......x

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angsaysrawr Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Arizona Posts: 12	I'm sorry to hear about what you are going through, but if you need to talk feel free to contact me. Right now I do not know if I will even have fertility problems because we aren't going to start trying until next summer but I do understand your pain. A good friend of mine has to get treatments to get pregnant because her husband had testicular cancer so all his sperm is frozen. I have been there supporting her for awhile. If you need to talk like I said feel free to contact me. hugs

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princess_bump Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: England Posts: 31,450	sweetie, i can't begin to imagine the pain you are going through i am so so sorry you have such pants friends but can i say i too am always round for a chat if you need a good listening ear and please feel welcome and supported here in wtt i wish i could take all your hurt away, i really do, your post made me i am so so deeply sorry for your losses. big hugs carly xxxx

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Pops Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Surrey Posts: 9,350	Oh my lovely, I am so sorry and will echo what has already been said, I am here whenever you want to talk I can not imagine what you are going through but I am very close to someone who is going through similar so know how painful it is and how it can consume you. xxx
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