am i being silly?

XxkayleighxX · Mar 17th, 2009, 12:28 PM

hey guys just tell me if u fink am bein silly

i over heard a girl at work talk about me 2day she was sayin how am silly 2 married my OH cuz we have only ever been wiv eachother and we need 2 try different things and our marriage wudnt last. cuz we got 2gether at a young age!

i dont fink this is true i fink its sumfink special we share only bein wiv eachother but i cant help bein hurt about wot was said.
i luv my otherhalf so much and i fink if we can get thur workin full time, living 2gether ect.... i fink thats special young age or not !!!

jackiea85 · Mar 17th, 2009, 12:34 PM

Don't listen to other people hun, I had 2 random blokes telling me I was too young to be getting married on my hen night! No one else's opinion matters, only you and your OH know how you feel about each other and what is right for you 2. Don't be put off by other people's opinions when you know you are doing the right thing

xx

Serene123 · Mar 17th, 2009, 12:37 PM

Only one way to find out!

Go prove her wrong! Have a happy marriage, and spend the rest of your life with the one you love x

BubbaMad89 · Mar 17th, 2009, 12:39 PM

i dont think people new me and my OH would last! weve been together for over 2 years and livin with him 2years this october and were engaged and tryin for a baby! it does not matter.. we have been to hell and back and were still happy as larry!! prove them wrong hun and dont listin to them, its you who is gettin married etc not them!

xxx

BritAcrossSea · Mar 17th, 2009, 12:40 PM

Yeah totally agree with jackiea85. People are too forth coming with their opinions (I say adding my own personal opinion

). You know in your own heart what's right and you don't need to prove to anybody else whether you love your OH or what you feel is right.

rachjim98 · Mar 17th, 2009, 12:47 PM

My friends and family freaked out when I married my DH after being together for 3 months... A Lot of them said it wouldn't last a year and I over heard many people saying it won't last and she nuts for getting married at such a young age, I was 20.
We were in-love and happy, and 11 years later we still are in-love and happy.
So don't listen to people, especially ones who have no input in your life at all.

Go be happy!! Goodluck with all your dreams!!

bunnyg82 · Mar 17th, 2009, 12:49 PM

hello! I just thought I would tell you my story - maybe it will help!

I met my hubby when I was 18. He was my first and I was his. We got engaged about a month or so after we got together and married a year later. We have now been together 8 years and married for 7 and I can't see it ever ending. We love each other to death. I love the fact that we have only had each other - i don't see why that is a bad thing if you're happy with each other!

People were sceptical about us, especially when we got engaged, they thought we were too young etc. But I don't think people really understand what it feels like to really know that the one you are with is "the one". It's horrible having doubters, but I have to tell you that 8 years on, I am so pleased to prove them wrong.

No-one has the right to judge you! I know it's hard, but I hope that you can take heart from my experience and rachjims

xx

BubbaMad89 · Mar 17th, 2009, 13:08 PM

my OH was goin to propose on Christmas day! but he got to excited and done it on the 15th! i was only 18 i turned 18 in October 2007 and i told my mum and i dunno if they was happy but i was and i didn't care and were still together. thought i lost my ring wen i was dyeing my hair once i went mental lol!!!
x

XxkayleighxX · Mar 17th, 2009, 13:24 PM

awww its nice 2 hear that u and ur OH r still 2gether! i just no me and my oh r gonna b! i dont care wot other ppl fink i luv him and thats all that matters!!

XxkayleighxX · Mar 17th, 2009, 13:24 PM

thanx guys !!

Mar 17th, 2009, 12:28 PM	#1
XxkayleighxX Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: cheshire Posts: 119	am i being silly? hey guys just tell me if u fink am bein silly i over heard a girl at work talk about me 2day she was sayin how am silly 2 married my OH cuz we have only ever been wiv eachother and we need 2 try different things and our marriage wudnt last. cuz we got 2gether at a young age! i dont fink this is true i fink its sumfink special we share only bein wiv eachother but i cant help bein hurt about wot was said. i luv my otherhalf so much and i fink if we can get thur workin full time, living 2gether ect.... i fink thats special young age or not !!!

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Mar 17th, 2009, 12:34 PM	#2
jackiea85 Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 2,398	Don't listen to other people hun, I had 2 random blokes telling me I was too young to be getting married on my hen night! No one else's opinion matters, only you and your OH know how you feel about each other and what is right for you 2. Don't be put off by other people's opinions when you know you are doing the right thing xx

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Mar 17th, 2009, 12:37 PM	#3
Serene123 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 32,048	Only one way to find out! Go prove her wrong! Have a happy marriage, and spend the rest of your life with the one you love x

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Mar 17th, 2009, 12:39 PM	#4
BubbaMad89 Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Essex Posts: 18	i dont think people new me and my OH would last! weve been together for over 2 years and livin with him 2years this october and were engaged and tryin for a baby! it does not matter.. we have been to hell and back and were still happy as larry!! prove them wrong hun and dont listin to them, its you who is gettin married etc not them! xxx

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Mar 17th, 2009, 12:40 PM	#5
BritAcrossSea Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Bradwell, Gt. Yarmouth Posts: 1,413	Yeah totally agree with jackiea85. People are too forth coming with their opinions (I say adding my own personal opinion ). You know in your own heart what's right and you don't need to prove to anybody else whether you love your OH or what you feel is right.

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Mar 17th, 2009, 12:47 PM	#6
rachjim98 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Florida, (East Coast) USA Posts: 585	My friends and family freaked out when I married my DH after being together for 3 months... A Lot of them said it wouldn't last a year and I over heard many people saying it won't last and she nuts for getting married at such a young age, I was 20. We were in-love and happy, and 11 years later we still are in-love and happy. So don't listen to people, especially ones who have no input in your life at all. Go be happy!! Goodluck with all your dreams!!

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Mar 17th, 2009, 12:49 PM	#7
bunnyg82 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 7,539	hello! I just thought I would tell you my story - maybe it will help! I met my hubby when I was 18. He was my first and I was his. We got engaged about a month or so after we got together and married a year later. We have now been together 8 years and married for 7 and I can't see it ever ending. We love each other to death. I love the fact that we have only had each other - i don't see why that is a bad thing if you're happy with each other! People were sceptical about us, especially when we got engaged, they thought we were too young etc. But I don't think people really understand what it feels like to really know that the one you are with is "the one". It's horrible having doubters, but I have to tell you that 8 years on, I am so pleased to prove them wrong. No-one has the right to judge you! I know it's hard, but I hope that you can take heart from my experience and rachjims xx

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Mar 17th, 2009, 13:08 PM	#8
BubbaMad89 Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Essex Posts: 18	my OH was goin to propose on Christmas day! but he got to excited and done it on the 15th! i was only 18 i turned 18 in October 2007 and i told my mum and i dunno if they was happy but i was and i didn't care and were still together. thought i lost my ring wen i was dyeing my hair once i went mental lol!!! x

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Mar 17th, 2009, 13:24 PM	#9
XxkayleighxX Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: cheshire Posts: 119	awww its nice 2 hear that u and ur OH r still 2gether! i just no me and my oh r gonna b! i dont care wot other ppl fink i luv him and thats all that matters!!

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