Wobbly moments....can I do this?

meganb · Feb 11th, 2010, 14:37 PM

Just wondering if anyone else suffers from wobbly moments, thinking 'Can I do this?' - I seem to get them all the time!

I also seem to spend most of my time worrying - about everything - will the babies be born healthy; will I go into premature labour; how will I cope with 2 newborns; why is this pregnancy so uncomfortable; etc etc etc.

I sailed through my previous 2 pregnancies and really thought this one would be breeze too, but it's soooo hard

_Vicky_ · Feb 11th, 2010, 15:17 PM

oohh you'll be fine - if you have babies already then I am sure you wont have the 'carcrash' moments we are having (first babies)

I carried my boys till 37 weeks and yes it was very uncomfortable but all worth it

I just used to say 'well it could be triplets lol' I was very very nervous about all of the things you mentioned but it all turned out good in the end xxxxxxxxxxxxx

meganb · Feb 11th, 2010, 15:29 PM

Bless you, thanks Vicky.

I just feel in completely uncharted territory at the moment. Will also be having a c-section (other 2 were natural) and have the date already (presuming I go that far) - Fri 11th June.....eeeek!!

mamato2more · Feb 11th, 2010, 15:31 PM

Yes, I certainly do! But, there is this one little baby at church that is so darn cute..He's only about three months old, and always tries to eat his Mama's face..He's so darn cute, I just sit and think to myself, I get two of those! I have six kids, and I get scared! But, I just figure that God gave them to us for a reason, and He will not leave us by ourselves throughout this!

Laura2919 · Feb 12th, 2010, 03:46 AM

Yeah I dont think you would be normal if you didnt lol.
Its a daunting thing having one baby let alone two at a time. Its hard work but it gives such lovely rewards! Its amazing! It truly is a blessing!
My girls are nearly 13 months already and in that time they have grown so much. When they start to notice each other is when you really are amazed but just how lucky you really are x

vineyard · Feb 12th, 2010, 09:37 AM

I promise. You will make it through! And, it's all worth it.

It's not an easy pregnancy and the first bit at home is rough. But, my girls are 3 months old now and I feel almost like a pro! We made it through and they are SO MUCH FUN!!!

TwoBumps · Feb 12th, 2010, 10:00 AM

You will be absolutely fine!! I used to have these little wobbles all the time, particularly when I would see friends with one baby and think how on earth will I cope with two of these on my own when DH is at work!!

You do cope though and I often think that the boys know that there are two of them as they are really undemanding (most of the time!!) and seem quite happy to wait while I change the other one etc etc!! x

chetnaz · Feb 12th, 2010, 12:39 PM

I know exactly how you feel! I have a very hyperactive 3 year old already so i dont know how i'll cope with him plus TWO newborns!! But more than that i worry about the pregnancy - will they grow enough, will they end up getting TTTS (they are identical so its my worst nightmare) will they be born too soon or too little? But im trying to stay as positive as i can. It helps knowing there are others out there feeling the same way. xx

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meganb Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 203	Wobbly moments....can I do this? Just wondering if anyone else suffers from wobbly moments, thinking 'Can I do this?' - I seem to get them all the time! I also seem to spend most of my time worrying - about everything - will the babies be born healthy; will I go into premature labour; how will I cope with 2 newborns; why is this pregnancy so uncomfortable; etc etc etc. I sailed through my previous 2 pregnancies and really thought this one would be breeze too, but it's soooo hard

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_Vicky_ Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2009 Location: Derbyshire - UK Posts: 5,928	oohh you'll be fine - if you have babies already then I am sure you wont have the 'carcrash' moments we are having (first babies) I carried my boys till 37 weeks and yes it was very uncomfortable but all worth it I just used to say 'well it could be triplets lol' I was very very nervous about all of the things you mentioned but it all turned out good in the end xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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meganb Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 203	Bless you, thanks Vicky. I just feel in completely uncharted territory at the moment. Will also be having a c-section (other 2 were natural) and have the date already (presuming I go that far) - Fri 11th June.....eeeek!!

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mamato2more Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Colorado Springs, Co, USA Posts: 2,307	Yes, I certainly do! But, there is this one little baby at church that is so darn cute..He's only about three months old, and always tries to eat his Mama's face..He's so darn cute, I just sit and think to myself, I get two of those! I have six kids, and I get scared! But, I just figure that God gave them to us for a reason, and He will not leave us by ourselves throughout this!

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Laura2919 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 14,111	Yeah I dont think you would be normal if you didnt lol. Its a daunting thing having one baby let alone two at a time. Its hard work but it gives such lovely rewards! Its amazing! It truly is a blessing! My girls are nearly 13 months already and in that time they have grown so much. When they start to notice each other is when you really are amazed but just how lucky you really are x

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vineyard Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Boise Idaho Posts: 2,379	I promise. You will make it through! And, it's all worth it. It's not an easy pregnancy and the first bit at home is rough. But, my girls are 3 months old now and I feel almost like a pro! We made it through and they are SO MUCH FUN!!!

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TwoBumps Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Chester Posts: 595	You will be absolutely fine!! I used to have these little wobbles all the time, particularly when I would see friends with one baby and think how on earth will I cope with two of these on my own when DH is at work!! You do cope though and I often think that the boys know that there are two of them as they are really undemanding (most of the time!!) and seem quite happy to wait while I change the other one etc etc!! x

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chetnaz Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: essex Posts: 1,931	I know exactly how you feel! I have a very hyperactive 3 year old already so i dont know how i'll cope with him plus TWO newborns!! But more than that i worry about the pregnancy - will they grow enough, will they end up getting TTTS (they are identical so its my worst nightmare) will they be born too soon or too little? But im trying to stay as positive as i can. It helps knowing there are others out there feeling the same way. xx

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