Baby day has changed!

vineyard · Nov 3rd, 2009, 18:37 PM

In the past couple of days I have gotten more than miserable. The discomfort has all turned to pain. I go numb when I sit or lay down but can't stand for too long. My skin is so tight that baby movements often hurt. I've hit a wall and am certain I will go crazy if I wait until Monday to have these babies.

Therefore, my doctor will be doing the C-section a few days early. We are scheduled for check-in at 10 am on Thursday, November 5th and the C-section will be at noon. The guilt I feel is horrendous. I feel awful and feel a bit like a failure for choosing to bail early. However, my body physically can not do this anymore.

Huge prayers that all goes well! If they need any NICU it should only be for a few days.

sarah0108 · Nov 3rd, 2009, 19:09 PM

FX for you hun!

good luck on thursday!!

your not a failure hugs x but you get to meet your girls soon.. yay!
x

miel · Nov 3rd, 2009, 19:16 PM

YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE !!!!

you have being amazing this all pregnancy a real trooper!!! now it's time for you to meet your two girls

...to have them a little bit early is TOTALLY fine

i will be thinking of you on thursday !! cant wait to see the pictures !

Jessa · Nov 3rd, 2009, 20:09 PM

I agree with Miel. You are absolutely NOT a failure! I've sat back and admired your attitude throughout your pregnancy. Good luck on Thursday! I can't wait to see pictures of your huge baby girls!

malpal · Nov 4th, 2009, 02:42 AM

Good luck hun! xxxxxxx

Kitty23 · Nov 4th, 2009, 09:26 AM

you are not a failure!!!

A few days early won't really make a difference will it

?

Ooooh I'm all excited now lol! xxx

hellohefalump · Nov 4th, 2009, 10:45 AM

You're not a failure for having your babies a few days early. I've carried ONE baby to 39 weeks and I was sooooo uncomfortable, I can't imagine what it must be like for you having 2 babies inside you.

Good luck for Thursday :-) hopefully everything will go smoothly and you'll be home with your family before you know it.

wannabubba#4 · Nov 4th, 2009, 10:58 AM

Wow Thursday - a bonfire baby ( I mean two lol) yay!! I am hoping to be getting my BFP then

You are not a failure for having them delivered a few days early -your health is really important too -you'll be the one who needs to be strong to look after two babies.

My niece (right enough only a singleton) was born (spontaneous vaginal birth) at only 34 weeks and was fine and went home the same day, she was 5lb 13. And many multiple births dont get as far as 36+ so you have done really well -dont feel bad about yourself -you have done a fab job!!! Do you know what weights your babies are estimated at?

Good Luck for Thursday OMG two babies by the weekend -you are so lucky xxxx

vineyard · Nov 4th, 2009, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by wannabubba#4

Wow Thursday - a bonfire baby ( I mean two lol) yay!! I am hoping to be getting my BFP then

You are not a failure for having them delivered a few days early -your health is really important too -you'll be the one who needs to be strong to look after two babies.

My niece (right enough only a singleton) was born (spontaneous vaginal birth) at only 34 weeks and was fine and went home the same day, she was 5lb 13. And many multiple births dont get as far as 36+ so you have done really well -dont feel bad about yourself -you have done a fab job!!! Do you know what weights your babies are estimated at?

Good Luck for Thursday OMG two babies by the weekend -you are so lucky xxxx

3 weeks ago they were estimated at 5.5 lbs and 6 lbs. They've been in the 90th + percentile throughout the entire pregnancy. Was suppose to find out estimated weights at a growth scan tomorrow but it seems that won't be happening!

**~KACI~** · Nov 4th, 2009, 11:41 AM

Not a failure at all!! You have done a great job, i can't imagine how much extra pressure those two little ladies are putting on you body

Good luck for 2moz and hope the girls are home soon.
Don't forget to post one last bump pic

x

Nov 3rd, 2009, 18:37 PM	#1
vineyard Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Boise Idaho Posts: 2,379	Baby day has changed! In the past couple of days I have gotten more than miserable. The discomfort has all turned to pain. I go numb when I sit or lay down but can't stand for too long. My skin is so tight that baby movements often hurt. I've hit a wall and am certain I will go crazy if I wait until Monday to have these babies. Therefore, my doctor will be doing the C-section a few days early. We are scheduled for check-in at 10 am on Thursday, November 5th and the C-section will be at noon. The guilt I feel is horrendous. I feel awful and feel a bit like a failure for choosing to bail early. However, my body physically can not do this anymore. Huge prayers that all goes well! If they need any NICU it should only be for a few days.

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Nov 3rd, 2009, 19:09 PM	#2
sarah0108 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2009 Location: Amongst the chaos Posts: 14,893	FX for you hun! good luck on thursday!! your not a failure hugs x but you get to meet your girls soon.. yay! x

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Nov 3rd, 2009, 19:16 PM	#3
miel Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Elite Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: San Francisco, CA USA Posts: 11,040	YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE !!!! you have being amazing this all pregnancy a real trooper!!! now it's time for you to meet your two girls ...to have them a little bit early is TOTALLY fine i will be thinking of you on thursday !! cant wait to see the pictures !

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Nov 4th, 2009, 02:42 AM	#5
malpal Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Leicestershire Posts: 2,500	Good luck hun! xxxxxxx

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Kitty23 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: South East, UK Posts: 2,152	you are not a failure!!! A few days early won't really make a difference will it ? Ooooh I'm all excited now lol! xxx

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Jessa Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 5,827	I agree with Miel. You are absolutely NOT a failure! I've sat back and admired your attitude throughout your pregnancy. Good luck on Thursday! I can't wait to see pictures of your huge baby girls!

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Nov 4th, 2009, 10:45 AM	#7
hellohefalump Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 1,814	You're not a failure for having your babies a few days early. I've carried ONE baby to 39 weeks and I was sooooo uncomfortable, I can't imagine what it must be like for you having 2 babies inside you. Good luck for Thursday :-) hopefully everything will go smoothly and you'll be home with your family before you know it.

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Nov 4th, 2009, 10:58 AM	#8
wannabubba#4 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 3,574	Wow Thursday - a bonfire baby ( I mean two lol) yay!! I am hoping to be getting my BFP then You are not a failure for having them delivered a few days early -your health is really important too -you'll be the one who needs to be strong to look after two babies. My niece (right enough only a singleton) was born (spontaneous vaginal birth) at only 34 weeks and was fine and went home the same day, she was 5lb 13. And many multiple births dont get as far as 36+ so you have done really well -dont feel bad about yourself -you have done a fab job!!! Do you know what weights your babies are estimated at? Good Luck for Thursday OMG two babies by the weekend -you are so lucky xxxx

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Nov 4th, 2009, 11:41 AM	#10
~KACI~ Mum (Mom) BabyandBump Team Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Wales Posts: 11,960	Not a failure at all!! You have done a great job, i can't imagine how much extra pressure those two little ladies are putting on you body Good luck for 2moz and hope the girls are home soon. Don't forget to post one last bump pic x

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