wantababybump

My husband and I got pregnant back in late October 2007. I had a m/c on christmas day 2007. I finally got my LMP on January 23rd and did an ovulation calendar on babyhopes.com/ovulation-calendar because we got so attatched to the idea of being parents we wanted ttc. On this calendar this is what it says:
MONTH 1:
1/23/08 - First day of your cycle
2/03/08 - A little bit fertile
2/04/08 - Fertile
2/05/08 - VERY fertile
2/06/08 - Time to ovulate
2/16/08 - A home pregnancy test may work now.
2/20/08 - End of cycle
2/23/08 - No period? Maybe you're pregnant!
10/30/08 - If you are, this is your approximate due date.

By a wednesday I usually have my AF which would have been by the feb. 20. I tested the next day because I was already a day late result:BFN. I took another test on day 4 late(the 23rd) result also a BFN. I did another test this morning: 6days late, it was also a BFN. Im getting so frustrated because im late and I keep getting neg. I have been spotting a bit though since the 23rd. Nothing major, some light spotting when I wipe and then a tiny bit in my underwear I even put in a tampon to see how heavy it really was but again it was basically nothing and then by later on in the day/night there is nothing, not even when I wipe. If this is my period I wish it was a little heavier so I would know that thats what is wrong with me. I can't do another calendar unless I know when my LMP is so I can figure out my Ov dates. I dont know whether to just assume that this is my AF and go from there or if its just a fluke. If anyone has any ideas please write me or email me. Thanks.

babezone

Hey hun...cant really give any advice as im ttc myself..but what about maybe using opk ot temping to see if you can get an idea of ovulation.....good luck and hope everything works out xxx