although being new to this, i can see my OH is getting stressed with getting a BFN everymonth...

...so i've decided to reduce TTC stress i've decided to phrase the "bad news" and the "BFN's" as simply "a delay of good news" wich seems to reduce the unhappiness and stress of getting "the delay of good news"

does anyone else think that this is a good idea??

if it reduces ur stress then go for it good luck getting a BFP for u and ur OH

thanks and happy new year wen it comes

Will have to try that one with my DH