cherie86

hi ladies im very new to this thread so if im doing somwthing wrong please tell me. well me and my partner are ttc again after the loss of our son at 18 weeks gestation. im so so scared of trying again that things will go bad again. in my heart i know this is what i want to do. we have been trying for month i know its not goint to happen over night and that things will take time. i want another baby so bad. i hate to see another woman that is prego just for the fact that im not i know it might sound strange but i know thigs will get better in time. how many others have been throught the loss of a baby and went onto a succesfull pregnancy.. im so scared of trying again. i dont want things to happen again.... i dont know what i would do if i lost another baby

celine

Im so sorry for your loss
There is a misscarriage forum on here too if you ever wanted to share your story or listen and help others, all I can tell you is that this forum gives great support and friendship. I hope you get ur baba real soon
x

still waiting

So sorry to hear of your loss I can only imagine how you are feeling.

The ladies on here are so supportive, when I now talk to my husband about the girls he knows I am talking about my ttc friends on here.

It is great to have a journal and just write away to your hearts content, someone else out there will be feeling the same or has been there and will want to help you through it.

I hope your stay in ttc is a short one and you get your special baby xx

Chris77

I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the journals.

cherie86

well my partner is now not sure if he is ready for another go at a baby...... he doesnt know what he wants or what if it happens again... omg what do i do... i dont know if he knows what this means to me i dont want to push him into anything he said if it happens it happens but he doent know if he wants to keep trying if that makes any sence..... im confused he was so into having another baby n now this... what do i do?? i just want to scream.....

still waiting

He's obviously just as scared as you of things going wrong, and maybe he doesn't have anyone but you to talk about it to, (men generally don't talk about their feelings they cover over them).

If he says if it happens it happens, then he probably does want one but is thinking of the hurt from last time. He loves you so wouldn't want you to hurt like that again.

Talk to him share your fears, or just don't share your planning and let him think you get pregnant by chance.

Obviously I don't have experience in your situation so it is easy for me to sit and say, but you will know what to do.

good luck hun, it will all work out

cherie86

ok ok my date for trying is nearly here..... im hoping for the best... so scared though but we can only try... do them ovulation tests relly work???? i know this time when i do fall pregnant that im going to stop work n take it heaps easy this time... just so nothing happens this time i want to do everything right... ive been on folte tablets for the last few months n im about to start on some other multi vitamin 4 pregnancy this week so that i know that my body will be as healthy as it can be for a new bub... im hopeing all is well but only time can tell thanks 4 listening