Newbie77

Right Wishing, how's about this for a compromise... I believe from BnB it's FMU that's the best (can you tell I'm not in the POAS club???) so will do a test in the morning, is that a deal???

wishing4ababy

hmmmmmm - am thinking.....................
*sighs* oh ok. I think i can wait that long.......although..........i didn't use FMU with any of my hpt's and got positives........and some of the girls on here have gotten more prominent lines on a non FMU sample!! No pressure - but can you hear me screaming across the M60????!!

Newbie77

Just thought I'd write a little about my weekend... Saturday was a fab day and truely got my toddler fix as she is now obsessed with me and just wanted cuddles and tickles all eve. Would only let me put her to sleep, ahhhh. Yesterday went for a walk round the reservoir and she was sooo hot bless her. Really enjoyed pushing her round, pretending she is mine (is that a bit stalkerish?!?!?!?). Loved it. My friend was asking again if we are ttc, she is my best pal, but we (DH & I) made a pact not to tell anyone as didn't want the added pressure, so didn't lie, but just said we're not, not trying but will take time due to patch etc, so hopefully won't be the same level of pressure! Silly I know...

Newbie77

Just popped my head out and yes a faint echo, *Wishing shouting...* "testtttt", "testtttt", "testtttt"...

*Newbie shouts back....* "Noooo", "Noooo", "Noooo"

wishing4ababy

ah but if you tested you might not have been lying - because you are awaiting a BFP and therefore not "trying" but waiting to tell everyone that you are infact PG!!!!! ha ha!!
on a serious note - i don't blame you for not telling anyone hun. It really is awful when people ask you all the time " so...any news yet?" and "still not pregnant?" which is what someone actually said to me when we were trying for ds. I just wanted to scream "F off" to them all. One girl actually said "i don't know what the problem is i just knock em out for fun!". that made me cry.
really hope this is it for you hun.

wishing4ababy

sorry....i didn't hear that. so i will shout louder this time!!!

TEST!!!!

Newbie77

Like the logic, ohhhh that would be great, although have that many social arrangements in next month we will have to cancel as I can't not drink (I am not an alchie honest), but one includes going to London for wkend to a bit of a glitzy party where it's a free bar and it is gonna be messy. Although I would just have had a few glasses of bubbles (as will be around Ov time), OH is planning on it being a massive one and as staying with family I can't drag everyone home... but lets not get ahead of ourselves...

The reason we haven't told as we have a few friends who are ttc and have told everyone so now it's like spotting if they are, ie are they drinking (it sounds like me and my friends do nothing but drink!!!) when we get together, plus some of them are so unthoughtful and just ask each other, then there is tears and then it gets into detail & takes over night, don't mind on here as there is a time and place but don't want visions of my friends positions, CM, etc etc bit of a prude on the sly...!!!

Newbie77

"TOMORROW...."

wishing4ababy

ok ok - I give in!! good luck for tomorrow - will be thinking about you hun. really hope it is a

Newbie77

Thanks Wishing for the support, fingers crossed, will be on here in morning to let you know...x.