Hello there and thank you for sharing your journal. For not only will we be able to help you with any questions you have, but you will soon find you will be the fountain of all knowledge ref. TTC or at least addicted to this site.
Or just plain crazy like the rest of us!
This site
http://www.tryingtoconceive.com/faqsTC.htm has an easy layout and lots of interesting questions covered that you might enjoy.
Here's a little

for your journey and wishing you good luck and happiness.
I think your husband has a very good outlook on not wanting to get too clinical whilst you try. The spontaneous approach is far healthier, but I have to admit it's difficult to remain so relaxed at times. Either way you have found a good place to share the experience here with lots of friendly folk.