Wanted to have a place to log everything and anything that is going through my mind dring this time so here it goes.
I went off the pill in April (with the intention of not having sex until my wedding in May and also to help my lose a bit of weight. Well we ended up having sex (but I did lose 8 pounds
) but we did not get pregnant. Our plan used to be that we would start to try to conceive in the fall of 2008, but we talked about it and decided I would not go back on the pill after the wedding and just see what happens. Emotionally we are both very ready and willing to have a baby. Being a mother has always been something I just knews I was ment to do, my most important purpose. My DH also wants to be a father and his desire to have a family and be a good dad was one of the main things that attracted me to him. The only area I would say we that we are not totaly prepared is financialy, but I think that is a typical thought, no matter where you are financially. We both have good jobs, live in a nice area (although we are currently in a one bedroom house), and are able to save a bit each month, the thing is that we are also currently paying down tons of student loans and now the remainder on our wedding. Nothing undoable, but still, it makes us worried about what it will mean financialy to bring a baby into our lives. But like I said, I am sure that is a common concern and honestly, I don't want to wait any longer. I turn 30 in less than a month and know that it can take a while to conceive... so ya, were going for it!!
So all of that out of the way,.. down to business.
my last period was on May 18th (it was 4 days late and I thought I might be pregnant, but I think it was just my body getting back to a schedule after stopping the pill)
We did the BD (sometimes twice
)on:
May 23rd
May 24th
May 25th
May 26th (Our wedding day!!!)
May 27th
May 28th
May 29th
May 30th
May 31st
June 1st
and nothing since then (to damn tired if you ask me)
According to my chart I should have ovulated around 31st or 1st
Probably silly to say, but we bot really want a girl, I have always thought that i would use the planing the sex of your child based on when you ovulate method (sorry don't know the name of it, or if there is one) I learned about it way back in high school and was amazed that I could influence that! However not really sure what my normal cycle is as I have only been off the pill for one period. So we will see, maybe we got lucky
or we may have stopped too early.
Well I am officially in the two week wait and we'll see what happens!
very soon hunny, 
to kick start your journey xxxx 
you have been indulging in!! 
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