Hi all,

Thought I would share my day's, weeks, months, years with you.
I have 2 wonderful DS's aged 8 & 6, but their farther is a A***hole!!!
In May 2004 I met the most wonderful man ever(my soul mate) and would love nothing more than 2 have his child(and b actually able to b allowed to enjoy my pregnancy)But after 2 yrs of trying and nothing we went 2 docs and OH has a sperm prob which is upseting both of us. Whats worst is the day we went 2 see the consultant I was already 3 days late and was convinced I was PG! But no the got me that same evening.
We have since been told that if I did'nt already have children we would be entitled to free NHS IVF but because I have children we are not.
I know I have children and should be(and 2 b hounest I am) grateful for having them, I just feel guilty my OH has not had any children even though you would think the boys were his own.


Anyway I am due to see the on Mon!

But I will not do any testing till Fri just to b on the safe side.

Well thats that for now will keep you posted

px

Hi pittapatta (love the name!),

can't believe that's the NHS policy on the matter!!! It's like saying men don't have the same right as women to have children??? Would it be different if he'd already biologically fathered 2 and you hadn't had any? Things like that really wind me up!

Sorry to rant - hope you don't need IVF anyway and are due for a great next week xxx

No don't matter either way!! We can only hope that our bd'ing and vitimen taken helps And yes I would love too hear the pitta patta of tiny feet again (heinst the name)

Hiya Chicken, welcome to your Journal
Hope your not hanging around here for too long and you get that quickly!
I'm In kinda the same boat as you.
Ex is a w***er and I am engaged to a fantastic guy now.
I have children with my ex but none with my OH, he has no children of his own.
I hope we can both bless our OH with a baby soon
Good luck with your Journey!

xxx