insomnimama

Good luck Jolyn- & I'm with Mugzy- demand good care even if they don't feel like giving it today.

jolyn

Hi everyone, rang the docs and the test results were negative, which is fine as I was expecting that anyway. I asked them about seeing the doc again, but you can only ring between 12-2 for results, not to book to see the doc!

I'm gonna keep an eye on things for a few days, see how things progress. If I'm not happy by Monday I'm gonna go back to the docs.

Been too busy today to stop and think. Got meetings upon meetings about this play centre. Looks like it's all going ahead depending on a meeting with the bank manager on Friday! Also, I've lost 4 lbs! So apart from the whole pg/not pg fiasco, life is not so bad

Franjipan

Hey Chick, i can see youve just had test results. Hope you're not too upset, you sound pretty upbeat but i understand how you must be feeling. Back in Feb this year i did a test and got a + and then negatives after that and even went and had bloods done etc and they were neg too but i was nearly 2 weeks late that cycle and im never late, not on an already long cycle of 37-38 days . Hated that month, it really messed with my head but i just put it down to 'not meant to be' at the end of the day although at the time it wasnt that easy and i was so upset and pi***d off ! Never had anything like that since though so im convinced i caught then but i guess ill never know.
I dont reckon yours would be eptopic do you?? Id agree with the other girls although ive never had any expereince with that, but surley youd have more pain with that? Hope its nothing like that. Really hope you get BFP next month to make up for this month. Hope all is going well with the play centre plans, you sound like a real busy bee xxx

nicola647

Hey Jo,

Congrats on losing 4lb!! well done

And great news about the plans for the play centre going ahead (well, fingers crossed at least!!) im just glad to see life is not treating as bad now, cos u must have been through so much heartache lately hun...

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magicvw

Hi Jo! Glad to see you are getting back into the swing of things a bit hun. Good luck with the bank manager - those meetings are worse than job interviews!

jolyn

Yes - I'm def having a more positive day today. Ready to get back in the swing of things. Think I might try and seduce DH tonight, that's if I have any energy left after aerobics. I'm just looking at the positives here

1) I actually got pg after nothing for 2 years with DS this is great!
2) This could be of the whole short luteal phase thing so see how the B6 goes, plus I can go to the docs about this for help (if they don't think I'm imagining things)
3) I know never to do a pg test after an AF EVER AGAIN - I'd rather not know!
4) I can now make use of the fertility monitor and pre seed!
5) If I get pg within this next cycle I will be due around mine and DH's birthdays
6) It made the wait to OV time go in the blink of an eye
7) There are women on here and around the world that have been through a lot worse than me and my heart goes out to them
DH gets to enjoy my new bigger size breasts until they decide to deflate

And a million more reasons to be positive rather mope around, I'm not saying I haven't been upset/confused/angry, etc, just don't think it's healthy to dwell on these things, especially when ttc.

Wow - it's amazing the effect of a chocolate digestive

magicvw

I am with you 100% on the chocolate digestives hun!

nellis10

JoLyn I think your positivity is wonderful and I really look forward to sharing your journey!! Bring on the choccie digestives!!!



p.S. Broke apart a 10ui pG Test convinced I could see a line 0.5mm in thickness...turned out it was a line I amde with my nail trying to read the bloody thing!!!

jolyn

I've done this before!!!! That's why I know those lines I had were not evap/shadows or dents - plenty of experience inspecting hpts!!!!

Lu28

Hi hon, so glad to see you're feeling a bit better, you're being so strong about all of this, we all think you're amazing. Bring on the monitor and digestives now - and you've got 4lbs to make up for!!!