yaya

Sorry about the bfn TT! But, of course, it's really way too early to test (naughty girl!!). Most women only get a bfp around 13DPO (they did a study somewhere).

Sending you and

Yaya xxx

TT's

11DPO

Will someone save me from this madness??? I tested AGAIN this morning with FMU got a then stromped around the house giving poor DB a really hard time and he doesn't even know why!

What's more I don't even have any symptoms anymore my bb's are fine and back to normal and not hurting at all

I just want a soooo much and what if I can't? What if I'm just one of those women who just can't have one? I know I'm being dramatic and this is only my 3rd month of trying but it's so infuriating

(sorry for the rant)

yaya

Aww, big to you hunnie!! I know it's hard but you can only wait it out for a couple more days -- 11 DPO is still too early to write this cycle off my luv. And hun, IT WILL HAPPEN FOR YOU!!!



Yaya xxx

Alexandra

Awwww babes! I know what you mean about giving them a hard time after the s I always do that. I can hear myself snapping and that translates in both our mings like "vanish from my path, I just got another "no" oh, Spermless One" but it sounds like I lash out of nothing.

Now I know you're aware that three months is really nothing so you'll feel better soon. Besides you don't know that it will stay a this month.

What's your action plan for seeing a doc?

Big hugs darlin'!

TT's

Thanks x

This is gonna sound stupid but I haven't thought about seein a doc till I get a cause I never thought there'd be a reason to... haven't you got to have been trying for ages before you go?

yaya

I would do a cycle or two of temping before even considering going to a doctor.

Anyway, no need to think of that yet -- this still might be your month!!! Try and stay positive hunnie (I know it's hard though).



Yaya xxx

Alexandra

Well this is not a popular opinion and I'm not the best advice giver on this but we hadn't been trying that long when I got the first home fertility tests -off Early Pregnancy on eBay I believe- and when mine came out right and I had seen a gyno that thought I had "some of the best plumbing I've seen for a while" along with how we knew I Oed every month bang on day 14, we did his, which gave us a bad result. That's what made us go look for the RE specialist we'll see on Monday. We had to say that we'd been trying for longer than we did, yes, but I think it's well worth it than try forever and for always in vain if there is indeed something wrong with our swimmers.

TT's

Hmmmm.... I might give this a go next cycle, my DB already has a child so if there was something wrong it'd prob be with me

Alexandra

You don't know that. It could be either of you but it could be NEITHER. That way after you've done that or went to the docs too you'll settle into TTC without any thoughts of "if" but worry only about "when".

TT's

so... what do we do to check?