Munchkin

Sorry hun!

browneyedshorty81

I'm sorry about your AF coming .. I think my af is on her way too.. i understand why u asked if i am sure im late, because u were 3 days late, and ended up with the af. I think that o Oved late and that my af was pushed to another later day... i dont know. i just feel out today.. good luck next cycle with your BFP

Farie

CD29 - Spotting 2 days early so I guess AF is around the corner and will turn up proper tomorrow or Saturday ... so my cycle is back down to 30 days.
I had thought that after last cycle the spotting before AF might have stopped but it seems not
Hey ho ... at least it mean I wont be waiting hoping for a bfp as if I would if she was late! No chance of that

Crap day at work(god I cannot wait to leave!) pg chicks all around the office telling us 'what a surprise' their pg was (3 announced it today) and I have PMT which is rare for me. I think I'm becoming jaded and cynical so will toddle away from here for a bit next cycle. I'm just fed up of it all, the dashed hopes, the wishing, hoping and wondering ... I may take up fishing instead!

Thank you all for fab word and support and I shall now toddle off for a weekends camping and hopefully return at some point feeling less 'ba humbug' about everything. I just don't like how I'm getting at the mo, I'm not really contributing to anything positive and generally just saping PMA away from others, I was thinking of myself as 'realistic' but its not - it's cynical and I'm not usually like that, I'm usually the up-beat hopeful one.

for you all and I have no doubt I'll not be able to stay away more than a long weekend!

Munchkin

Hi Farie,
Sorry you've had a crappy day!
Hopefully the weekend away will help you to chill out a bit and forget about ttc for a couple of days. And if your PMA isn't back by Monday, I'll have to beat it into you!

Lu28

Awww hon don't worry about lack of PMA, we'll donate some in bucketloads to you instead! Have a brilliant weekend away and try not to think about ttc at all - hard I know but you deserve to enjoy yourself stress free for a while. Big big for you sweetie

TT's

Sorry about the spotting honey

I know exactly how you feel darling, all the people who just seem to geet pg by 'accident' then moan on about it just wind me up! It's just not fair.

We'll have our babies soon anyway, it just takes time to make the really special ones

saraendepity

hey hun so sorry to hear about the spotting and the lack of pma, hope the camping helps n u get some nice weather. loads of pma coming your way, have a fab weekend

lots of

sara

xxxxxxx

Lu28

I was just thinking about those girls at work, I wonder how many of them really fell pg by accident? I'm going to tell my lot I got pg while on the pill and taking antibiotics because I don't want them to know I was trying when I haven't been there very long so you never know!! We had a work do last night and the one girl at work I told was VERY drunk (chasing people around with a watermelon pretending it was a monster!) so I'm hoping she managed to keep her drunk mouth firmly shut!!

Have a lovely weekend honxxx

tansey

Hi hun, hope the weather is ok where you are camping! Hope this witch is being kind to you! xx

Farie

CD2 - low on the CBFM, new cycle starting ... cycle 9 and our 10th month

Had a FAB time camping, our tent was fab and even though it pee'd down Sat night and this morning (hence us being home now rather than tomorrow night) we had a lovely time just waling round the seaside towns and curled up in the tent reading and listening to the rain drum on the tent while we were warm and dry!
I managed to read 2 books and not talk ttc/babies quite so obsessively, and not get to upset about AF arriving, which is good as last cycle it really cut me up.
We had long chats about the type of place we want in NZ and where we want it (thank god we agree!) we both love the deep countryside and really miss it where we are living currently.
It was so great to have 'out-door' time and we also took LOT's of pics!

So ... staying way from here kinda failed I've only been home for 4 hours and I'm back in my journal! And other peoples!

and thank you so much for all the PMA and encouragement, it mean so much and has worked wonders!



ps - Lu, I think you may be right that some people say 'accident' as its easier to explain than "yes we have been trying for 10 moths "
Sadly in the case of 2 of then I know they have been out drinking/smoking etc right up to the last week or so
The other one I think you may be right, she's only been at the company 6 months so I guess 'accident' is easier to explain.