Kerryanne

Oh your af sounds awful.

Am trying to lose weight also, i've lost 3 stone all ready.

shamefully, when i started college, i was getting up at 5.30 having nothing to eat then getting into college and stuffing my face with face, lunch would be a chinese or chippy, more rubbish, and then when i got home at 6.00 i was too tried to make anything (plus on the phone to OH ) i order something to eat. I was so knackered to do any workout.

Eatting on meal a day is very bad for you, in the end your just damaging your body and it doesn't look nice at all, there was a survey that was done, and men love size 12 best over size 8, because she got curves and boobs and a ass also the caveman in side him like women with curves because it shows she can carry children, she's healthy.. I use to be a size 10-12. Am now a size 12. trying to just lose a wee bit more.


I know what you mean about your tummy, my post c-section tummy is awful, the scar is fading but it kinda still tucks over, i think it like this because after the c-section ur tummy goes right down, were as with normal birth, it takes it time, because after ds1, within 2 weeks i had a flat tummy again. I hate hate hate my tummy, i can't even look at it without


Anyway am cycling now, and hoping to do swimming plus i do my wii fit (which is fab!!!!!)

I will lose this weight, i will not stuff my face

TT's

Your right it's terrible for your system and yur metabolism slows right down and men don't really like the look of it

But we were under so much pressure from our trainers and coach that I think I did it the semi sensible way, I knew a lot of girls who used to starve themselves and take laxatives and it was really sad to see

Kerryanne

oh i understand the pressure of it, it is sad because they don't know what there doing to there body,

its the same for young girl, they think that its best to look like stick insects when its not.

i remember when i was in school and i use to loads, and nothing went on me i was so slim, people thought i was making myself sick because there was no way i could be like that.

those Celebs make me sick, they come out with stuff, i back to a size 6 after having a baby two weeks ago by eatting healthy blah blah WHICH IS BULLSHIT, sorry but it gets me so mad, cause there new mothers out there who's body is not not back to normal and they read this and feel like crap. Plus all that stuff they say that they eat health but still have rubbish still.its rubbish

TT's

I hear ya kerryanne, it's a load of bull!

Sorry for taking over your house wishing

xxx

wishing4ababy

that;s ok guys! I agree with you both. and oh says that he loves me the way i am - always has - even when i was bigger than I am now! But, the thing is - i dont believe him! I do want to be thin - and many years ago i used to live on a muller light yoghurt and some rice for my tea. I was very think - size 6 at one point....but everyone said i looked awful! My dad used to cry when he looked at me and i did make myself ill. The doc threatened to admit me to hospital at one point - and i think that was the kick up the bum i needed. I loved the fact that my stomach was concave - part of me would love to get that motivation back but part of me is frightened to death of getting back to that state.
so...for now it is just eat sensibly and go to the gym. If that doesn't work - surgery here we come! Now....all i need to do is win the lottery!!
AF seems to be tailing off - wtf!! my body is bonkers.

Newbie77

Afternoon Wishing, hope you are feeling a little better, I know when I get a really heavy one (sickness, faint etc) that I always feel better late aft to early evening. Also if I can stomach a meal.

Enjoy TGI's tom, now lets see, starters would have the jack daniels prawns and main would have the veggie burger / veggie fajitas - I always leave there feeling soooo guilty, but lurve it! Even have bought the jack daniels sauce for home!

Have fab weekend (if the witch leaves ya) hun.....x.

wishing4ababy

hmm - loaded skins with sour cream, guacomole....my mouth is acutally watering!!! chicken fajitas - and then pyjama bottoms all night as nothing else fits me!! taking the kids too - so i HAVE to have pudding!! What a nightmare!!!!!! OH is away on a stag doo tomorrow so i am going with my friend and her daughter! can't wait!

wishing4ababy

did your tummy really go down immediately after section - it took mine ages. Both times.

wishing4ababy

Morning girls! How amazing is this weather????? fabulous - got a bit of a tan yesterday sat out in the garden! got the paddling pool out and had a lovely day!! drank a few beers and had mum and dad round for tea!! wish the weekend wasn't over!
TGI's was yum yum - but weighed myself this morning and i have managed to put 2lbs on in one weekend!! got a wedding on saturday and a dress that i have to get into - so am going to the gym every day this week to try and shift it!!!!! it was all good though! and it could've been worse the maount of food i have eaten!!
af is still here - she is taunting me. Yesterday i thought she had gone but she is back with avengeance! the old cow bag! i hope she isn't going to linger as long as this weekend! still feeling really big and bloated and my boobs are killing me! roll on ovulation and the dreaded 2ww! this bit is the most boring!!!!

sjnams

Sounds like you had a lovely weekend Wishing, i'm well jealous! Don't know how you can think about the gym when you have AF, I have no energy whatsoever when I get AF so don't do any exercise for the entire durationg then wonder why I have gained 4lbs at the end of it!!

Hope the buggers off soon so you can get on with the fun part of a new cycle!