wishing4ababy

also, got really painful wind today (tansey, i know what you mean now about it hurting.)
and my c section scar is really aching.
going to mention that to them this afternoon too. hopefully this is early symptoms - but i could be clutching at straws..........AGAIN!!!

tansey

using them wrong - for how long? You numpty!
Any news? I'm interested in the aspirin question for myself - share all!
Hope you ok!

bird24

How did your appointment go? xx

wishing4ababy

well my appointment yesterday was a complete waste of time. Consultant was horrible - said that my mc were classed as sub clinical mc and therefore there is nothing that they can do. Won't start any investigations until we have been trying for 2 YEARS!!!!!!! I felt like punching him.
I asked about the aspirin - he said "if you feel you want to do that then that is your decision!". HELLO!! WTF. I just wasted 2 hours of my life - i am so annoyed.
so....went home really annoyed and we had Indian take away for dinner - and this morning i am 4lbs heavier than i was yesterday so am really angry now.
to put myself out of my misery i POAS - i know that it is far too early but i felt like i needed to just to stop them from shouting at me in the bathroom - which they were, really loudly, and they would've woke my children had I not relented and done it! It was of course BFN being that i only ov a couple of days ago, but it made me feel sooooo much better! is that wierd????
today, my lower tummy (right where my c section scar is ) is really aching and i am exhausted. can barely keep my eyes open.
Tansey - i know i am really stupid - i can't believe that i wasted the sticks - so now i have no idea when i ov this month. I was having cramping last wednesday thursday, bit of EWCM on friday, then loads of EWCM on sunday - so hopefully we have not missed the little egg this month. We BD'd wednesday thursday sunday night monday morning!!! was too upset last night!!!
Bird24 when you were asking about your endo did they ask how long you had been TTC?

bird24

Yep they asked me, but i said it was only my second month. I was also ttc for 6-7 months 2 years ago so i told her that too which was when she was a little concerned....

Sorry sorry your appointment was so sh*T, sometimes they can be so insensertive (cant spell) its just wrong....dont they understand how stressful and upsetting this can be

I have no idea if i've O'ved either this month, just gonna have to go with the flo

but if i havent me and OH did it three times last night so probably not any spermies left Oops

Keep on Bding hun until you see either BFP or AF

Hugs!!! xx

wishing4ababy

it is just so annoying that i was feeling all positive thinking they would just deal with me and then nothing!!!
i don't know for sure whether i ov'd or not - i have been using the OPK's wrong!!
good luck though = 3 times???!!!! my god - go girl!!!!!

bird24

Lol - i think we may well be doing it too much though!! hope not as we both have such high sex drives it would be a nightmare putting off BDing and trying not to do it....wanna just have fun and hope it happens

Its so annoying when you just want some reassurance from a doc that everything is in working order but they turn around and say whatever just get on with it...

Its so hard isnt it....i've never has a miscarriage but i cant imagine how horrible it must be as i wanna get pregnant so much if i saw a BFP i'd be so over the moon but then to have it taken away would be even worse

At least you know you can carry full term as you have children so i'm sure you'll be fine next time round
xxxx

wishing4ababy

hmm - to be honest that is exactly what he said and thinking about it i guess it makes sense. He said there wouldn't be any need to do any investigations yet as i had carried 2 successful pregnancies - i was horrible too!!!! this TTC is hard!
i really hope you get your this month - you deserve it with all the Bding you are doing! it would be so good to go into 1st trimested together!

bird24

Yep hunny it would be awesome to be chatting in the first tri about symptoms (real ones not the imaginery ttc ones)

Then we'd be chatting about scans, names and all that

So excited about all that !!! hope it happens soon !!

Never seen a BFP on anything.....cant even seem to see one on OPKs which is very annoying, i think next month if i dont get a BFP i'll be doing OPK;s all month just in case lol

or buying a CB monitor as that sounds easier

Fingers crossed for us....

Gonna eat a cadburys creme egg now to make me feel better - my day is dragging!!!
xxx

Franjipan

Afternoon chick ,just though id drop in and say hello and sorry about your appt being so crap! I do know how you feel about p.o.a.s and feeling better though, think it has something to do with feeling its something we can do to help or control something, that we havent got much control over, do you know what i mean?? Like I know i cant control whether i get bfp but like the feelling of being in control of my little routine of planning my bding, taking my temps, using opk's and then using hpts. Thats how we make the time pass eh? So thats why i think it makes me feel beter anyways.

Really hope we get bfps, you deserve it for sure. Ah well at least we are at the same point for testing together etc. No symptoms for me so far although I have got a while to wait yet
Hope you ok x