bird24

Goodluck hun

Hope everything goes well at the gynae!!
xx

wishing4ababy

got my appointment at last - 15th April so not that long to wait. I am feeling a little better about stuff. me and DH had a really good chat about everything last night and we have agreed that we will face whatever they tell us together. He tends to shut me out when things are bad and i really need him to be there for me so we have sorted all that out too.
Pains are still pretty awful at teh moment but hopefully it will pass soon.
GP said we are ok to try again this month and I am pleased that my appointment is (or should be) just after I have ovulated so they should be able to see that - is that right?
Fingers crossed it happens soon - I dont think i can face it if they say never ever.
thanks for all your lovely replies - it really makes a difference.
xx

nicola647

Wishing you and your OH loads of luck with your appointment hun. Take care luv Nic xx

bird24

I have my appointment to see the gynae on 14th so day before.....hopefully we will both get good news!!
How you feeling now?
xx

wishing4ababy

hya
feeling a little more positive - will hopefully be ov this weekend so i am trying to get a babysitter so that we can BD in peace - LOL!! i am always scared that we will wake the kids up!!
how are you feeling?

bird24

yep i'm feeling ok....not gonna get stressed about anything as that wont help....just gonna wait and see what the hospital say about my pains, although since coming off the pill a month and half ago my pains have got a lot better so fingers crossed xxx

wishing4ababy

what kind of pains are they? i came off the pill in teh august 2003 and my periods were all over the show for about 12 months afterwards. Some people go back to normal straight away but it took me ages. I wasn;t on a really strong one either - just logynon.
do you think they could be ov pains?

bird24

NO WAY....my pains are deep inside pains when we have sex...sorry for tmi but i was getting them all the time when i was on the pill but now its just closer to when AF comes i get them but not as bad....sometimes i cant move for a bit after sex and i jst have to curl up in a ball until they go, they normally last about 15 mins after.....its like really bad period pain + inside pains too..... could be endometrosis - hope not

xx

wishing4ababy

fingers crossed it isn't then? do you suffer with water infections - i know it sounds daft but i used to get thm all the time when i was on the pill and the aftermath was always pains like that - like a cramping - but really bad. it used to really hurt - especially if it was a particularly heavy session (TMI but if we did it from behind i would be in agony!).
We were going to start BDing tonight but OH is working through the night tonight and tomorrow - i am gutted. Hope we dont miss our chance this month. Fingers crossed.
you have got your docs appointment next week haven't you - hopefully we will both be all sorted then?

wishing4ababy

so only 4 days til ov - i hope it is this weekend although after last month i am not sure if my cycle will be normal. I am getting cramps (like mild af pains) today so i am hoping that is a sign of immenent ov!!
i am feeling a lot more positive today (thank god!) but OH is working away tonight and tomorrow night - so i am reaelly hoping that we don't miss our window this month! fingers crossed. We have decided that we are going to BD every night from Thursday (as he is working - but i said to wake me up for a quickie (LOL) tomorrow night!)!! I really want it to happen - so need to chill out i think and let nature take its course.
Of course i am also at docs next week so i am thinking that hopefully everything will be sorted soon either way and if nothing else i will finally gt some answers.
Am trying to send vibes to to keep her away this month- but then again i have gotten pregnant with my first 2 babies in may - so perhaps may will be the month for me!!! everyone will kill me - 3 birthdays all around the same time in Feb!! yikes!!!!
don't care when the little one is due - just the sooner the better for me!

On another note, i haven'[t managed to get a thermometre this month, but am defo going to start charting next month. Think it is probably a little late now that i am nearly at OV. was looking at the Boots Fertility diary thing - looked quite interesting. Am hoping to go and buy all gadgets next week if we get the all clear from the hospital to carry on trying.