bird24

They talked about putting me on Clomid when i had my LAP - well they said that if when i go to the clinic in aug nothing has happened they will discuss it....but isnt that just for when you dont ovulate?

she sounds well cute....i bet she loves being with you guys....your gonna be such a great mommy xxx

the caravan isnt how you are imagining it....its a lovely big one, like a mobile home ...... so lovely... by the seaside....i could live in it

xxx

bird24

Thanks sweetie....i think i will temp until Aug so i have something to show the clinic and then maybe give it a break after that....otherwise they might ask me to start temping to see whats going on with my cycles, and if i've already done it thats gotta help....

Thanks hun xxx

jacky24

O.k the motor homes you get now is so nice, ye now it sound like heaven to me.

Well just because clomid did nothing fr me doesn't mean it wont work for you, as you would have noticed alot of ladies got their from using clomid, but no it didn't make me O, and u take it if you don't O, or if your gyni want's you to have a stronger O or release more eggies...

But last month i had all the signs and syptoms of O on CD15, but this month i didn't focus on any signs and symptoms so maby i do O i just don't know it...

Kerryanne

Yeah i know what you mean, he does see the boys as his, he is there daddy (The boys started calling him daddy, we didn't make them, there little eyes light up when they see him and they cry when he has to leave for work etc), and my ex is there birth father ifswim, he going to adopt the boys in Nov, well we will start it all off, and he promise me that even if he splits up with me he will always be the boys dad, which is really nice to know. Thats the whole reason why we want to have a baby together is to go through the whole pregnant thing and him see me give birth to one of his children, it is a wonderful thing. I never thought someone could love my boys as much as me, and it is great for the boys as now they have a daddy, they will know about there birth father, but OH really wanted them and he loves them, so he will be there dad, i know alot of people who they call dad is not there birth dad, i.e my brother ex girlfriend, dad is not her birth dad, she doesn't want to know her birth dad see's no point in it, when her mum and dad broke up she wanted to live with her dad. It shows dna doesn't make you bond with people, its being there and showing love that does, if that makes sense, i think that is why OH LO crys when he leaves you guys and talks about you all the time, because he has a bond with you, and thats the best thing anyone can give to a child.


Your such a lovely person, and one day your going to be a great mum

TT's

Hi Bird

Hope your ok, I'm just catching up!

I don't think that I could do the temping thing cause it would totally take over my life! If it's good for you then keep it up till the appointment - it can't do any harm?!

bird24

yes def heaven for us for a week!! i'm soooooo excited i can hardly do anything at work its what i need!!!

ok cool, maybe thats why they thought i might need it ....i suppose i'll see when i go in Aug if i dont get pregnant before then....see i'm trying to be positive!!

maybe you do ovulate hun....i dont get any signs of it either normally but my temps last month def showed i ov'd and i had a blood test that came back normal the doc said....she maybe you are and your body doesnt need clomid anymore

xxxx

jacky24

That's the thing, the homeopath said i do O it is only my eggie goes hard due to all the problem hormones in my body...

And with the pains and things i had for 2months on clomid i honostly thought i did O... i had every single sign of O on CD15/CD16 and on a 29 day cycle that is spot on O day

I so wanted to start temping but i am a very obsessive person so i decided agains it thou.... Might go thru to many thermometer each month if it gives me the wrong reading i might just break it in half

bird24

Thats so sweet and he will be a better dad than their real dad so thats all that matters as the children are the most important thing in all this......and thats great that he's going to adopt them

me and LO def have a great bond...i love seeing him and get sad when he's not around...

Thanks hun, you are a lovely person too and already a great mum

bird24

yep i think that will be the plan, keep it up till the appointment, see what they say when i see them and then decide if i cant be bothered then i'll just go with the flow....

it would be easier to stop temping when my cycles are the same length each month at the moment they went from 28 to 37 days last month so its easier to see that i ovulated later and so i know when to expect AF rather than getting excited thinking its late when it isnt....so in that way i love temping....

Thanks chick xxx

Tanya

just poppin in to say hi and good luck for this cycle... you are right about temping - it is good to show doc if there comes a time you need to go... hopefully you wont tho... cause you WILL get your before... ok!!!