TT's

ha ha, yes that might work!

I know it's just sod's law

xxxx

Tanya

I know its hard but we can do this.... we are all here for you but you must also do whats best for you hun!! Take it easy and lots of

bird24

Thank you everyone for your kind words and support i couldnt ask for a nicer bunch of people to chat to...honestly ladies you are the best....

Stayed up till 2am talking to OH half last night about how i feel and it helped a lot....he now understands why it gets me down so much when we are ttc and nothing and then i start worrying because he got someone else pregnant 5 years ago at the drop of a hat....and not by choice.....it helped a lot so i'm feeling a little better today after our chat and cuddles...

Got some this morning!!! wow that was hard waiting till this morning but we used preseed too and it was all good!!!!

i stayed laying down for about half hour after but then needed to get ready for work so hopefully that was long enough

Cant wait to go home tonight and see OH....i'm so in love is amazing.....just wish this love will make a baby very soon xxx

thanks again everyone you are amazing

TT's

Wooo Hoooo for the

I didn't get anything last night or this morning cause DB was sressed out with work boring.... Not that it's the 'right' time or anything anyway

Awwww....it's lovely that you're all loved up here's to a for you this month

nicola647

So pleased to hear you are feeling much better now babes, and your OH sounds really sweet - it must be great to feel so loved up (wish me and my OH could get back that loving feeling lately!!! )

YAY for the and the pre-seed!!!

Hope and Pray this is your month hunny

BIG GIANT

xxxx

wishing4ababy

chick i am so pleased that you talked it through with your OH - and does that mean that you have decided to stay with us? hope so hun. would really miss you.
yay for the BDing - and obviously a big YAY for the preseed!! i can't believe that i am nearly 34 () and I have only just found it!

bird24

Hello hun

yep i'm gonna stay chatting for now and see how i get on, i just need to get my head around it all when i have bad days and stuff gets to me....just need to be chilled and think...if it happens it happens...but we all know how hard that is
sometimes i wish i hadnt looked into all the facts about ttc as it makes it worse worrying about things when teenagers know nothing about when, where, how much, dont use this, do eat that....and they just have and get pregnant not even ttc so i need to stop reading every article and info and just have sex the way we want to

using preseed this month as i havent seen an ewcm since coming off the pill, def wetter this month already so hoping thats a good sign from taking EPO, drinking grape fruit and carrot juice

roll on ovulation !!! i'm gonna get that eggie this month for my birthday lol

nicola647

You go get that Eggy babe, and your right (TRY) to forget you are even 'Trying' and just Enjoy xxxxxxxx

wishing4ababy

I really hope you do get your this month hun. fingers crossed.
Preseed can only help can't it hun - i don't remember getting any ewcm when i was trying for my first you know - so it doesn't actually have to be there.
i know what you mean about getting your head round stuff. I used to think that there was only me who was struggling getting pregnant. one girl said "oh i dont know what your problem is I pop them out with the drop of a hat". Really wanted to punch her but in my state of my mind i burst out crying and ran out. I really wish we hadn't told anyone - and so this time it is a big fat secret!!
You sound like you have a fab supportive oh - that must help and i am sure that you will get your BFP soon.

AND I AM SO GLAD YOU ARE STAYING!!!

bird24

I my god i would have felt like punching her in the mouth....
I hate people that do that its not upsetting and makes you feel less of a women or something....
i havent really told anyone as last time i did and it make things so much more stressful and never happened and then we split up so silly telling anyone else as you never know whats gonna happen.

OH is amazin i must admit, he went to the docs yesterday about his ears and then asked the man about ttc and what he could do to help....thought that was so sweet, he said he went really red too while he was asking...what a cutie!!! the doc just said we havent been trying long at all and that he can get a sperm count done in a fews months if he wants but they wouldnt normally investigate unless its been nearly 2 years - i love him so much and he really is trying which is cute

he said to me last night ' i know i have a son and everything but we never 'tried' and he was unplanned so even though it happened and i love him to bits, this will be even better as we have been trying and want it so much that waiting longer for something we want so bad will only make us appreciate it even more'