mugzy

Sorry you're feeling blue

magicvw

Hi Birdy! Sorry to see you feeling down hun. Sometimes TTC really sucks doesn't it - takes over your brain, your reasoning, your wallet even! Hang on in there! Don't start punishing yourself with those "why did she get pg so easily" thoughts - they just don't get you anywhere.

I have my moments of thinking about packing in charting and everything else too. TBH, I only got pg with no.1 after I had stopped thinking about it all. I hadn't charted temps or anything like that, but was keeping track of my AF, taking my folic etc. I stopped doing it because during that summer we bought a property (our first ever, and abroad) and set up our own company. I was so busy I just didn't think about it at all. I didn't even know I had stopped noting down AF! And of course i got pg! (10 months it took).

You've just gotta go with the flow. If it's all getting stressful, take a step away from it. The chances are all in your favour for now - you probably WILL get pg and you probably won't need anything except time. That's how it is for most couples! What a load of crap eh?! It stinks. It's pants. But we all know how you feel babes, so come on in for a humungous , and have a glass of wine - sod it - one won't hurt!

bird24

Hey chicks

Thanks for all your posts and hugs. i really needed them !!!

Had a night in with the girls and watched 'The sweetest thing' proper chick flick and soooooo funny if you havent seen it GET IT its awesome...

Took my mind off ttc most of the evening as none of them girlies have children and arent pregnant so it was good...

I just wish i could be one of those people thats just relaxed and thinks 'it will happen when the time is right' but i cant as i want it asap...greedy arent i and very impatient....definetly thinking i'll have to stop coming on here if i cant relax as it wont help me to get a BFP if i'm obsessing too much...i will miss you all loads tho

xxx

TT's

Hold on just a baby chasing minute....


Don't think your just gonna wonder off and leave us...oh no no no

We need you on here! You've been ace and great and wonderfully supportive to me and loads of other girls on here so you have to stay now. It's the law

Anyway, I tried to get baby and bump clean last month and it doesn't work you'll get terribly lonely and need evryones input...who else will you obsess with?!?!

Nope, it's decided. Your staying we'll miss you too much if you go so lets get those silly thoughts out of your head at once





and a super big

bird24

Oh TT's your so sweet hun and being so supportive after what you have just been through....wow your amazing a real star chick....we all deserve to have BFP's so much its hard because i want to see all the lovely ladies on here get one just as much as i want one too

come on MR storky - we need lots this month please!!

i would miss you guys so much and miss all the support

TT's

Stop this! No more talk of going!



Puuuurrrrllleeeeeasssssssseeeee stay

x x x x x

wishing4ababy

hey hun. PLEASE DON@T LEAVE US!!
I feel like that all the time hun - you are not alone and when you are feeling so down about stuff it is good to come on here and realise that you are not the only one in the world who is going through all of this.
I hope you are feeling better about stuff today chick - i don't like to see you so down. You know where i am if you need me - always here.

nicola647

Bird

Please, im asking you really nicely, dont leave us.

dont think of it as being obsessed hun, just think of it as coming here to have girly chats with us lot.

You can't leave

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

yaya

Aww, Bird hun, sorry to hear you were feeling down. Glad yr girlie night cheered you up a tad though.

You're not alone hun! I feel the same and also wonder whether I need to stop TRYING so damn hard and just stop charting, checking, planning, calculating, obsessing and all the rest of it!

We'll get there though hun -- by hook or by crook, one way or another -- we are destined!!!!



Yaya xxx

bird24

Its so annoying when your feeling low and no one can pick you up out of it....i need a big hug from OH at the moment

xx Thanks for the support