you'll have to bear with me as this is all new to me and have never really put my thoughts in to words. I met my wonderful partner last year after being married and being seperated for 2 years. I have a 5 year old daughter from that marriage who is the apple of my eye (a cliche i know) but she really is amazing and im so proud that i managed to produce such a wonderful little girl.
unfortunately I also lost a son during that period and after that said that i didnt want anymore children as i didnt want to risk going through the heartache that the loss of a child brings. That is until i met molly....
Its seems almost as if fate bought us together.We had both experienced the devastating loss of a child and both had been through so much over the past year that it seems as though we were destined to bring each other some long over due happiness..i know this is all a bit geeky as she would call it but thats how its is and i dont mind saying it!
We are now trying to have a family of our own something that i never thought i would be prepared to take the risk of doing but it just seems that this is whats meant to be and would make our lifes that little bit more complete.
I thought that i would try and bring a male perspective to the whole process of trying to have a child and what its like for us men and how we deal with things in a different way

So over the the duration of however long this takes i will try to attempt to put a different perspective on things you may not agree with me which is fine as this is a Males point of view but hopefully you might find it interesting and amusing to see how us males view the process :O)

im sure molly will be posting her opinions :O)

i dont need to post you my opinions i tell you everything

i do love you

i hope this does interest people and i hope you can write honestly and openly here after all its not just me ttc

xx

Awwwww - I wish I could get my DH to do this...
Unfortunately he tries to avoid the mechanics of babymaking as
much as possible....

He's idea of a contribution is to ask me "Is it time to have sex yet?"

Good for you!

lol nice!

james is very good actually he always knows roughly what day im testing on (opks+hpt) he calls 'it' babydancing and reads up on ttc stuff online!!


gosh im a lucky devil

well maybe you can get dh invloved by going look a man to talk to......:S

im the lucky one!! and i know it lol

The whole process of making a child involves 2 people and both should have an equal interest in everything to do with that process its supposed to be something magical shared between those 2 people :O)

You guys rock!! and i love that Molly's man has gotten on to this web site. Well done!

My OH is lovely in everyway and i cant fault him for this not being his thing, but I l'd love to hear another mans perspective. Good stuff!!

Thanks I hope i can give another perspective on things :O)

welcome I think we will all love to hear from you
ps: for sure he is a keeper girl!